First of all i want to let you know i have been separated about 3 years and divorce is not final due to a work injury i got and was off work almost 3 years for therapy then surgery when they finally found the problem, divorce will be started soon(beginning of 2014 and it is mutually wanted) that is guaranteed and i am willing to explain this if you ask. I want to find someone who will be my best friend, soul mate, and lover,to have long term relationship, maybe marriage, the person I think of when you wake up in the morning and go to sleep at night. Want someone who can be fun to be with, I don't act my age but occasionally feel it lol. I like cuddling with someone while watching tv, spending quality time together. I am a loyal person, easy going, and do what ever I possibly can for those I care about I am looking for a man that is willing to treat me as well i treat him. I am a affectionate person, the small things done for each other in daily life means a lot.Honesty and being able to discuss things and reach compromises are important to keep both of us happy. I'm not into playing games if you are please don't contact me. If you have children that is perfectly fine, i have two grown children out on their own, a 19 year old daughter who jives at home and is second year of college for nursing, and my 9 year old grandson whom i have had since a month old, i have custody and parental rights of him(i am mom to him). . . UPDATE- I like going out occasionally and have a beer or two, gardening,spending times with someone special makes doing anything special.I am happy doing things at home together as well as going out, Sitting in the dark watching the sunset or stars with someone special. I want to find my best friend that i can talk with about anything,everything, and nothing important, someone who can make me laugh and smile. A man who will appreciate the chance to be trusted with my heart and wants to build a life together. Someone who i can count on to love and protect me just as i will do for him through good and bad times. I am not into games and don't want them either , I will accept your children as my own and want the same in return. I want someone who wants to make life the best it can possibly be together. PLEASE if you can not share a picture as i have done i most likely will not respond to you, its only fair, and i like to be able to put a face with who i talk to, i'm not trying to be rude just honest. thank you and best of luck.As of September 7th, 2013 at 12:30 pm , I do not give Plenty of fish or any entities associated with Plenty of Fish permission to use my pictures, information, or posts. By this statement, I give notice to Plenty of Fish it is strictly forbidden to disclose, copy, distribute, or take any other action against me based on this profile and/or its contents. The content of this profile is private and confidential information. The violation of privacy can be punished by law (UCC 1-308 - 1 1 308-103 and the Rome Statute).