Never make someone YOUR PRIORITY while allowing yourself to be THEIR OPTION! Ok I felt the need to add this to my profile too. Im 28 not 30. My profile wont let me change that sorry. Anyway I don't message a lot of women. I only message a woman after reading her profile and deciding that im interested. With that being said. I don't message a lot of people but I respond to EVERYONE!!!! Why!? Cause I know first hand what it feels like to read 50 profiles find one person that you're attracted to and you like their page. Take time to think, build courage, and send a message. Only to see later "read deleted" or even worse "unread deleted" like im a big boy I can take "awww that's sweet but you're not my type" but to take the time to read someones message and to delete without ever even "tipping your hat" to the effort they made to try to talk to you.....REALLY?" I don't think ANYONE on a dating website should be that co**y! Let me add this also. I'm not racist! I like everyone. So if you know that you would never,... think about, consider, want to be seen in public with, hold hands, kiss, or talk to a black man don't waste my time!!!!Oh well.....also I'm on this website because I'm SINGLE(& looking)!!! Meaning I like to hangout with single women! We can see where things go from there but if you have no intention on ever actually hanging out please don't waste my time because no offense but I'm not on here to have email buddies. Anyway I love my car plus I have a motorcycle too. I love going out and dancing all night long but....I love staying in cuddling & doing the home cooked meal or takeout and a movie .
I don't just go for "pretty blonde girls"(i mean i do but not just them) but..... I like brunettes and redheads, black haired, curly, straight, basically "fine with hair". sorry can't date a girl with hair shorter than me. I like to run my fingers thru my girls hair sometimes not rub her scalp. Anyway I'm not attracted to any race more than any other I think beautiful is beautiful no matter what shade it's in on so whatever. I don't discriminate. If I think you look good and have a great personality that's what's important. Not what my friends say or what ethnic background you are from. If you get what I'm saying. Ill give anybody a chance. Don't like games just let me know from the begining.
So do you really want to know about me? Really, I don't think you do. Oh. you're just reading this to be nice. I understand. Well i guess I could entertain you since that's what i do anyway entertain people for a living. Well not really for a living because i dont really look at what I do as work. I get paid to GOOF around all day. I worked at a major theme park fof several years as a dancer then i made the transition to film where i got my SAG card(please tell me you know what that is at least) so im finally recognized by the union as a professional actor. verses a waiter that says hes an actor(no offense) i spent this past summer on a Reality Show (you can ask if you want to) Yay (still excited about that) Wait....you're getting bored again huh? Ok here's a joke. So this mom has three daughters and wait i can't tell you that one. Oh i know...ooops guess im out of space if you want to know about me guess you'll just have to ask me directly. don't let the height scare you im 6'7" but i've always had a thing for shorter girls ;)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
warning reads more like a how to guide but it's all original from me and I think it's not only a great plan but also funny to read. If you don't like it well like the website there's plenty of fish....anyway here goes.
Well the first date is crucial. Why you say because if she is'nt impressed on the first date there will be no second date. So let me start of by saying movies on a first date BAD idea. VERY VERY BAD IDEA. why? Because, at a movie you are forced to be quiet. This is bad because sure you'll both prob enjoy the movie and be able to talk about how you never expected that to happen at the end. However after that 5 minute conversation is over you have just gained two things. 1. A detailed recap of the past 2 hours of what you've just seen. 2. A new "Buddy" because you wont have anything to talk about except...Hey remember that part when.... or can you believe he....movies and first dates bad bad combo. However minigolf or bowling or arcades GREAT first date places why? I'll tell you. First off minigolf give you the opportunity to talk but also feel each other OUT(not UP pay attention) If there's chemistry well hey you can help each other learn how to putt. Remember even if you're a great golfer on a first date you MUST i repeat MUST suck. why because 1. people feel comfortable when they arent the only person being beaten by 7 year olds. and 2. noboby likes a show off (thats for the second date) Oh yeah and if there is no chemistry its something you can get away with doing early enough in the day that if the date is a complete bust you still have time to hook up with your friends and hangout. So both your date and your night aren't ruined. (however if the sparks are there you may proceed) For bowling and arcades you can pretty much follow these same rules. Food however is huge I repeat HUGE on a first date. NEVER go to a fancy sit down restuarant on the first date. Why? because a girl isnt going to risk blowing it with you by having celery in her teeth until she's comfortable with you. Think fast food(not MCDONALDS because that makes you seem cheap ) if the mini golf place has soft pretzels grab a couple there and then go somewhere like FRIDAY's/CHILI's for dessert. That way if she wants to order real food she can but if she wants to keep the "I only eat brown rice and vegetables thing" up until the second date she can. Without feeling pressured or unconfortable. Lastly dont forget the KISS(not that kiss ) this one. KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID. Its a first date let loose have fun be yourself and just let it flow . If its meant to be she'll like you for who you are not for anybody you have to pretend to be.