Fundamentally, I'm friendly, personable, and dependable. I believe that a true relationship is built on honest communication and trust. Truly, I think it's the most challenging thing we can do - to share our lives with someone. It involves a lotta bending, understanding, getting through the fire, and who knows what else. But I guess it's all worth it or else we wouldn't be on here : )
I moved out to southern Cali for the weather, and the progressive state of mind. I'm pretty understanding on a regular basis. It's difficult to be so all the time, but I certainly make an effort. I have a heightened sensitivity to the way words affect people, and it will be rare that you hear anything unkind coming from me. But there is a consequence to that - if I can't figure out the best way to communicate, I will remain silent until I do, which is a bummer to some.
I grew up in the Midwest (brutal winters!), and lived in Florida for six years (too humid!). Ventured out here in 2003 - I'm happy in environments that appreciate my efficient work, and where people are interdependent. Currently I work in a senior community. It's constant comedy, really. You'd be surprised how sassy people can be even when they can barely walk, hear or see.
I'm even-tempered and pretty responsible, although I like to have a blast now and then. Lol, I am known for beating my boyfriends at their own games - and I mean the Friendly type of games, like sports :). I surprisingke killed at fantasy football a few years ago - which made up for all the times I lost lol. I do enjoy doing things with my partner that he likes to do, learning his interests - simply because it's fun to have conversations about it.
I'm not sure if I'm truly ready for a relationship right now .. I know it says that on my profile, but when I put "nothing serious" on there, I received a lot of emails from fellas thinking I'm looking for a booty call .. lol no
Feel free to email me, I appreciate your thoughts.