LET ME START BY SAYING MESSAGES WITH ONLY 3 WORDS LIKE "DAMN YOU FINE , WHAT UP MA , OR OOH YOU SEXY "....WILL BE DELETE..I mean Really Fellas? I'M Not vain but I know this and if you read my profile you would know how I feel about it..come harder than that to get my attention....smdh
Trying something new. Im saying this because I am very skeptical about online dating but a friend speaks very highly of this site and made me promise to try it (I rarely make promises and never break the ones I do make).. lol so here I am. Recently moved to Sac area by way of Oakland but really from DC (your nations capital! Yes the Hood is right near the White House,and NO other than the inauguration and a weekend at the Aria, I have not been in the company of our President LOL)
Im what you call a Grown Woman. Why do I say this? Well age has nothing to do with being grown it more about life experiences, lessons learned, and choices made. I am strong becasue i am and because I have to be but on the inside im am still a girl. I believe the one thing the Lord gave us in Life is the power of Choice (will) so I choose to be a good person everyday in a world where it is soooo much easier to be "anything" and do nothing..I do my best to teach my children the same..Im a very honest person, straight no chaser. Very little time for games or transparent BS.
Im naturally Sexy which I feel is a gift as well as a curse. I embrace ME! Flaws and all but I can not help that I exude sexiness and this sometimes becomes a problem when the person on the other end cant see past my external beauty...The IMPORTANT STUFF = Im a very compassionate, caring, Sharp, intelligent, loving, giving , loyal, intuitive, and kind lady. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I enjoy settings where people are happy weather its eating my cooking, camping, listening to my crazy antics or just chillin listening to good music.
Have I mentioned I've Never been into the online dating thing - very nervous about it as well as getting representatives instead of the real thing.
I am a realist. When I say I keep it 100 its really more like 1000. I deal in Black and White and have very little room for the Grey areas.
My hobbies include traveling, eating good food, cooking great meals, talking to new people, listening to music (i love live bands) and of course shopping (im a girly girl lol)...What makes me unique, hmmmm I am a free spirit. I am a soccer mom. I am the ultimate hostess. Im a guys girl meaning very laid back and cool person , love sports and talking shit, but some men cant handle my cool nature ..Meaning they say they want someone who doesnt nag or is drama free but the reality is they create Chaos or need all those insecurities to feel secure. I AM NOT THAT GIRL, I do not do drama, dont come with any and dont want any. Say what you mean and mean what you say and Im good with that. I have a natural ability to talk to anyone about anything in any setting. This can sometimes be intimidating to men OR it can make it hard for me to find THE ONE..Being Patient in the love department, I just Pray When its right I will know without a doubt.
Im a lady above all else hoping to find someone who is a strong manly, protector/ provider type that has no problem being the Man in the relationship because i was raised to be a woman (whike wearing a pretty skirt)
Overall I live for making good memories, I am a Lover of LAUGHTER, Life, Love, Food, Good People, and Music ,,,,
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
i have no preference on a first dates. I can adapt to most situations and places. Ive had 1st dates where we went skydiving (18,000 Feet!) and then there was another first date where we sat by the water sipped wine and talked = both were equally satisfying so all I can say is be yourself but creativity never hurt anyone.