I don't need to explain why I am here - cause you're here too! We'd like to meet someone and have a relationship, right? Of course. But that sort of thing, in my experience, tends to happen when one least expects it. You accidentally crash your cart into theirs at the grocery store, or you turn around at Starbucks and he takes your breath away. But I can't spend all day whirling on my heel in a coffee shop, waiting for you to show up, right? Very inefficient. Ah, the mysteries of relationships. Who can explain the thing that draws two people together? You're in luck -- I can! Intelligence, and a sense of humor, and being trustworthy, and the ability to understand the importance of intimacy - not just in terms of sex but in terms of partnership. What does that mean? Here's a simple example: When something great happens, my first thought would be that I can't wait to tell you about it. Because we are wired together that way. You are my best friend and my partner and we share everything together. Eventually it goes beyond finishing each other's sentences and just turns into mind reading and nods and an arched eyebrow and a chuckle. Hopeless romantic. There is no cure.Beyond that stuff, it sure doesn't hurt if you're super cute!! I'm a sucker for a nice smile. That cuteness stuff goes a long way with me. Make me laugh on top of it, and I will follow you anyplace.I try to take care of myself, and I'm most compatible with people who make an effort to do the same. Everyone has room for improvement of course, but I already did a lot of mine before I got here! I'm very single and very available. So why am I doing this? I'm not only single, but looking for my last first date... So yeah, I know I shouldn't show my cards like that but why not- honesty is the best policy, right? I'm definitely *most* interested in meeting someone with the potential to become something serious. Having said that, I don't *need* a relationship and I'd rather just date casually than be in a bad one - hopefully that makes sense? So, if you're not interested in a serious relationship, but you want me to put my heels on and go out with a fun guy that will treat me well and make me smile..I am up for it, that's called "dating" Let's do it. So here we are! Don't be shy. Drop me a line and say hello - and I will try my best to make you smile.
If you're not bored yet, here are some Fun Facts(tm) about me!- I like to sing and I do it all the time when I am alone, but I am not really bad at it. And I am way too shy to sing in front of people. So sometimes I turn on Youtube, fire up Rock Band, and sing the vocal parts when nobody is there. I can't believe I am telling you this.- I am kind of a football fan. If you and I have three free hours on a Sunday, I'd rather not waste it sitting on a couch watching a football game. Actually...the couch could come in handy though...hmmm...- I've done camping. Same goes for fishing and hunting. I'd rather have some friends over for a dinner party, or plan a weekend getaway to the beqch or mountains. Or we can take the bikes and spend the day riding around chasing each other in the woods - very fun!!! I love to be outside, go for hikes, run around, and be active but at the end of the day, you'll find me in the hot tub. Stop by and tell me how you shot that deer and packed that bloody mess out of the woods for six hours. Good for you! I got a couple of steaks at Kroger. They even offered to carry them to the car for me.- I work a lot and I love my job. Sometimes I have a hard time getting away from it. I am trying to be much better about boundaries.
I have been in real-deal love two times in my life. I mention this because I know what it feels like, and I know that I want it. More than that, I have the capacity to be in that sort of relationship, which some people simply do not. And in fact, every day, I hope I meet that man that will help me fall in love for the third time. More silly daydreams. Go ahead and laugh. I will never quit looking.- I like being single, for the most part, except on Sunday mornings.. Sunday mornings are a special time for intimacy and coffee and reading the paper and pillow fighting and dancing in the kitchen while making breakfast. I miss that a lot. Sigh. Okay, I'm a dork. Sue me.-
Dating is fun, even if you have bad dates. It's interesting to meet new people, even if you don't ever want to see them again. Going out is always an adventure. - Why aren't there any adult single men that want a true woman?? Sometimes I look, I see the sons of the men I want to meet. Where are all those men at? Maybe I've been going about this all wrong.- I like motorcycles, and I have friends who love Harley Davidson Lifestyle. If your dream is to spend your weekend wearing leather and having your butt bounced up and down-- I don't know if I am for you, I don't think we need a Harley for that. OMG I cracked myself up! Hilarious!
First Date ~ If we are meeting for the first time, coffee place is good to sit and talk for a bit. Do you know why? Because there is a strange phenomenon that cannot be explained. Call it "the click". Two people either have it or they don't. You can find this out in ten seconds, and if there is no click, there's no point in going any further. [Helpful Hint: Sometimes the people who show up bear very little resemblance to the people you think you have been getting to know. I have no idea why people would misrepresent their age and appearance and then just...show up anyway, like you're going to be too polite to mention it?? Baffling. Coffee places always have a back door to bolt through if you need to escape. I think it's a rule. If you find yourself with some creepy woman who lied to you, pretend you need to use the restroom, and slip out the back, Jack!! The More You Know...]So the coffee or drink thing is really great to make this determination. You're saying aren't you being cynical? Not so much, I am a pragmatist. If you make grand plans to go to dinner and a show and whatnot, you show up, there is no click, and then you have to spend five hours with somebody you aren't interested in being with - or who isn't interested in you!!!
It doesn't matter to me in the least as long as we connect!