Age: 50
Long Term
Age: 46
Long Term
ThoughtfulComplexLady: Keeping It REAL!~ Are You the One?
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Modesto / from san jose, California
48 year old Female, 5' 4" (163cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Capricorn
ThoughtfulComplexLady is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic
Education , Will be returning to get My Degree

getting ready to take a drive, buckle up 3

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Let's Keep it real
Who am I ? I'm a woman who is looking for that certain Companion who I can be myself with, without judging,or controlling, honesty , caring and we don't hold our pasts with one another, and he would be my whole world., BTW , Are you Real? Are you Honest?

I AM NOT looking for the one who wants to stray away and have another woman on the side, or just a one night stand, or occasionally hook ups, Not even a part timer, I would like someone who is honestly looking for a mature relationship eventually and can devote his effort into keeping it real with just ONE WOMAN...I want the real solid deal,yes friends first, but eventually I WANT to be loved and feel secured in a committed relationship. I'm not into playing games, just tired of the drama and games that men play ..Do not waste my time if you are not in this to win ..I can't believe how many FAke and liars are on this site and men who play games. WHY ARE YOU HERE ? BE HONEST from now and further on, I DON"T like liars, fake, childish, game playing men if you just want to put a front on and make it all sound good in the beginning, and then play games with one's feeling and emotions please don't do it with me, there is a woman who likes this sort of thing, but it's not me,

Having the same or similar interests would be my match ( Drives to the coast ( Monterey, Carmel, Seaside ) , I love the Ocean :) , driving or having vacations to the mountains , I'm not known to be adventures by Hiking in the mountains, so I can start small steps with my seeker to hike ( I'm willing to try Hiking ) I also like relaxing at home at home occasionally.. hanging out with friends for BBQ' or get together, spending time with FAMILY, movies together are other interests I like to do. I would like to find my match who Loves to cook like me, and cook together BTW I have it together more than most women on here and I am true and sincere at really looking for my SOUL MATE I KNOW WHAT I WANT ~~> . Someone who can commit and we can make our own memories to last forever. Will you give it your best? Will you be everything I would want?

I love music >>I have a huge selection, I like all genre's. My greatest love is 70's-80's,R&B, Slow, Oldies, Old school cruzing, Classic Rock, Rock and Hip Hop. I do like some country music , I have not ever been to a country music concert.. Artists who I will never give up on (( Journey, Foreigner, Janet Jackson, Paula Abdul, Bon Jovi, Colbie Caillat, Barry White, Commodores, Tesla, Scorpions, Def Leopard,Kiss, Sade, Whitney Houston, well know you know my music taste. Also there are singers artists that I haven't mentioned that I like. Ask questions and I will answer. I wil be honest with you, I am easy to get along with ,we can be friends who share the same things =

My favorite spots, Reno, Las Vegas, & Sparks Nevada, Carmel, Monterey, San Francisco, Sacramento, San Jose, Santa Cruz, Sea Side, Salinas, well this is a few places. I would love to go to Pismo , Palm Springs, Clear Lake..

I'm a honest, caring, loving, committed into my relationship, Respectful, you treat me right & and I'll do the same, I have a huge heart, yes, but I'm learning how to pick up myself, and brush myself off and go on living. I have been a single mother who raised her kids on my own and have been here for them and now it's my turn to enjoy my life to the fullest, they are old enough now , but I'm still their "Mother " I will not let anyone come between my children and I will not do it to anyone else., I do believe If I'm happy they will be too. Family, honesty,respect, communication, love, commitment, and affection is 100% my life. If I'm the one you want to see what can develop , please just send me a message and we can take it from there. I have learned from past relationships, and have taken time out to be alone, and now I am ready to be loved and to Love.
~~~~Only those who respect the personality of others can be of real use to them.. ~~~~~~~~

First Date
My first date would be officially happen if we both have a spark after initially meeting for coffee, soda or ice cream in a atmosphere where we both feel comfortable in and we can talk and get to know one another to see if there is any kind of connection on both parts. If we don't hit it off on at first, then we both can walk away and go on with our lives . Looking to be positive. If we do hit it off then we can enjoy taking the next step == :)
Then we can talk about a first date. Let's keep it simple and Honest. First impressions will tell the truth and are the Lasting Impressions. Be real and honest. Smile because you want to, not because you have to. Be true to your feeling is the best ..I believe we still can be friends..
Happy Fishing ~

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