PLEASE READ COMPLETELY TO THE END BEFORE WRITING
SERIOUS MEMBERS ONLY PLEASE:
Please note if you say I am beautiful or gorgeous before really getting to know me I will not respond and will block you.
I do not consider myself more or less beautiful than any other man woman or child on this planet. I am not perfect and respect everyone the same despite their looks. If you are into looks you will be gravely disappointed by my tongue and mind, because my appearance is hideous compared to my mind, heart, and spirit. The most beautiful people I deal with on a daily basis are about 90 years old if that gives you an idea.
I also recommend giving girls a try that you normally wouldn't find "hot". Once you get to know her for who she is she may be the most beautiful woman in the world to you, and I hope you plan on not being alone long term, because it would be healthy for you to be with someone for most people. Not everyone's mother is a Beauty Queen, but the greatest miracle of all in this world-and of your life-happens in her wombs. Respect that first before you comment on my dumb pictures, or looks, please. I'm only saying this because I get 10 random emails a day saying "Hey Gorgeous!" from people who make No attempt to get to know me and the reality is, I don’t look all that great, I just got lucky with the right angle, lighting and shot at the right time.
I'm blunt honest, not being mean or rude, just being honest and not cute about it. (rare for a female I know)
If you are looking to get laid (you will be the most offended by this) Please stop and take a moment to realize Women, genetically-scientifically-spiritually-associate Sex with emotions,and when we are devalued to something to "do" you are hurting us in a major way. Some women are desensitized to the point that they are no longer like this, but originally, biologically, it is how we start, and my body, which is capable of not igniting, but harboring, protecting, creating and delivering human life, deserves supreme respect in the reproductive area. So if you are bouncing around, maybe this will help you reconsider your actions and take the people you see on this site a bit more seriously.
If you are just sickened by now with anger, guilt, rage or conviction of my words, don't read more because its only going to get worse.
This is what the true spirit of a natural woman wants to say, but often does not in fear of your aggression, and utter disbelief. Because Women don't speak, much less fight. We aren't the best at fighting. This is serious, this is my life, and I highly guard who I let in it.
Most of what I am writing is just a message that I want to get out into the world, because I believe its time to make the next step in human advancement in the specific area of Male to Female relations. We are fighting for Gay Marriage, while the whole romantic connection in Heterosexual relationships is completely kaput. Ironic huh? We fight for Women’s rights but many men out there will be angered by my stance.
On the softer side this WAS my profile:
Looking for some dinner dates/ a few new friends/ eventually my new best friend.
“I have good Memories, good friends, I smile and laugh often. I work hard and am very happy. I really like my job and my co-workers are awesome. It was a very hard journey but I'm finally ready to be content. I don't know if sometimes because of our past we worry, but I have stopped worrying and look forward to each day. I cry less and laugh more and dance and sing every day. I'm eating well and have great hobbies on my time off. I am healthier then I've ever been-Walking and Biking often and swimming when I can. I've built strength and stand tall. I feel comfortable with out make up and give hugs At least once a day. I listen and care about those around me. I tell good jokes and like to keep it clean. I respect myself and hope to build confidence in others around me that are where I once was and show interest and respect to those who are good examples. I am thankful for all the hardships and how it's molded me into what I am today. I like to be good at what I do and do what I'm good at that does good too. But I couldn't have done it without Love . That is why we should always love each other. It helps us as a whole make progress and take victory over defeat. Thank you for all your help those who have shown Love to others. I appreciate you and what you do.”
As many of you found this very sweet, and endearing, looking back at this point in time I was really just saying what I thought you wanted to hear. I was actually most hurt when I wrote this, and trying to feel better. All it took was one smart person to see past that. He knew that part of what I was saying really was, I am hurt, I am trying to be better, but it is hard because things in this world have failed me and everyone else. I wrote this in attempt to bring better people around me. This doesn’t work on a website. It does however work in person. The latter half, past “I am Thankful”, is all true but also shows weakness and vulnerability that often draws the wrong kind of attention. Currently I have met one person that is becoming a very good Friend on here, that is extremely special to me ( Hi Sweetheart! ^_^* if you are reading.) He is Male, Straight, and has told me it is okay for me to be angry, and showed me the truth about how a lot of Men are incorrectly associating them selves to Women. He works in the Mental Health sector, so I am going to take a Therapist's advice over yours. Sorry if that disappoints you. As Mad as I am, it probably isn’t a bad Idea but he will assure you I am not crazy, and has been supportive in all of this.
So I am going to keep this up in hopes many of you will read this and understand it is possible, not out of reach, and a lot of growing and learning before you get there. And if you really appreciate the company of a Lady, please respect and learn what it means to be one before you go around “hitting us up, just to hit us up”.
When I first started POF I was more angry. I was angry because I am conscious of the worst things that happen to women in the world today and even though I have only been victim of a small percent of what is out there, I was outraged. Unfortunately instead of protecting women by correcting those things, most Men cast females with bad experiences aside as though its too much to deal with, respond to, protect or take care of-"the baggage" that they didn’t create because they aren't personally responsible. A good man will take responsibility regardless, for his own kind and the lack of maturity in that individual, try to disprove it, be better, and real man will protect and take care, and even if she pretends not to want to let him, he will offer and continually try to. >>>
This is Ironic because in the world today with all the War that exists, one of the main excuses is to "Protect Women and Children" to justify warfare actions, but War is never for Women or Children. It was originally and mostly still is today, Men with Guns Killing each other for Power. Every time, Ever, Period.
As a collective consciousness of the Female begins to Evolve into a Voice, it is time for Men to Evolve with us.
Please-Stop objectifying, Stop supporting Porn which only degrates and actually abuses most of its sex workers (PS-this is NOT how real sex works) and stop randomly saying Hello/Hey/What’s Up- to every pretty face you see. Take the time to know someone for the precious person they are.
Time is limited, Life is short.
I want to thank you again, you know who you are, because now I am not sad, or angry, or lying to myself about how I feel about things, and I am also no longer desperate for anyone’s approval. Thank You for making me stronger-by showing me another side of things, I haven’t seen for almost a life time.
I hope this is helpful to everyone who took the time to read it.
I like surfing, anything in the water at any time that doesnt include drowning. Also I like kayaking, rock climbing,... Im a good sport with about anything.
Beer is okay, Wine is Fine, Liquor is ...eck!!... a little too much. But as long as you treat me nice I dont care.
Long walks and Bikes are Awesome. I am always down for a Beer or a Bite, but just one is enough.
I would prefer you have an open day set and planned to meet and are ready to go. I don't have the time to wait or go back and forth with someone for days. I am free most evenings, and some days. Please be prepared to come to meet me for the first few times atleast.