Hi & thanks for clicking on my happy little bald smile and taking a second to learn a bit more about me.
First and foremost, I am an ISFJ to those who understand the whole personality thing...
I, like most other people on here, am searching for something - just not sure what yet. I know for certain I'm not out seeking the random hookup (FWB, one night stands, booty calls, etc...) so many people speak of these days. I also know I am not looking to get married anytime soon. What I am looking for is someone to enjoy the ride we call everyday life with - a friend. Someone I can call up and go grab a beer with one night, or someone to go spend the day in the city exploring with. And if something deeper than friendship were to happen, then that'd be awesome as hell, if not, it'd still be awesome as hell because I've always believed life is better spent enjoying it with the company of those who have similar interests to you. I am a firm believer in serendipity (long before the movie came out), meaning that our paths and plans have already been set and every small little thing we do has some sort of effect on our future, including our relationships. I'm also a true romantic & believe in romance.
I'd like to think of myself as a simple guy with simple interests. I make the best of each day and make each day count because you never know when your number will be called so why not try and make life count each day, even if you're doing the most mundane things like working or running around town with your kids? I also live my life with no regrets, because if I did, I'm the one that has to deal with the bottled up anger and anguish of it inside of me, so I finally decided to not even bother. I don't live my life care free, but I do care more for my life each and every day.
I am single dad who shares custody with my kids' mother and her & I do get along well when it comes to co-parenting. We've learned to put all of the bullsh*tand drama behind us and do what's best for our kids and I know that my kids truly benefit from that.
I'm not going to sit here and say that I'm one of those dudes who goes to the gym six days a week, or bikes, or hikes, or climbs, or runs, or swims, or whatever. Honestly many say they do this all the time, but I've learned that they often say it to often make themselves look better & that's not my game. I do go on an occasional hike to places like Pt. Reyes or Hendy Woods State Park but not on a weekly basis. I'm also not a couch potato or a video gamer either - just don't want to give off the wrong impression here.
Some things I like to do besides exploring the city like a tourist would be driving up north to the redwoods, going out to the coast to veg out while taking in the views and the sounds of the mighty Pacific, going to movies (favorites are horror), going to concerts, going to try new beer at local places, or any number of other things here within Sonoma County.
Lastly, I hate to feel the need to mention this, but it seems I need to say this based on previous experience that if you are out looking for some quick hook-up, revenge on your ex, taking a break from your ex, or are looking for some guy to support you and pay for everything, we're probably not going to be a good match - just saying.
Also, just to be fair - I have listed that I do not want to have anymore children because in fact I have taken the measures to prevent that from happening anymore & am happy with my decision to do so.
Otherwise if something I said intrigued you in anyway, go ahead and send a message & say hi :-)
I always like to meet at a coffee shop for the first time. That way we can spend some time getting to know each other and relaxed environment & see if there's any compatibility. First meeting is success, then I will suggest a date to a place with a fun atmosphere like a pizza place. I'm a simple guy and I like doing simple things :-)