I just moved back to Pittsburgh from NYC. I spent the last 15 years back and forth between each. I moved back here to help out family. My sister in law has cancer, I moved back to help my brother. It takes up a lot of my time and is very stressful, but family means everything to me and will do anything for them. If this is a problem please move on. I have had women I was seeing flip out because I couldnt spend time with them because my sister in law was in the hospital. So if you're that selfish we will not get along. I am the chef/partner at a local restaurant. I am laid back, love the outdoors, open-minded, a geek, love tattoos and piercings (I have both), and I am looking to spend time with someone that compliments me. Someone I can hold a real conversation with. I am very affectionate, not clingy. I actually have manners. I hold doors for people, I will even open and close the car door for you. I say please and thank you. Trust me when I say you won't find someone else that will treat you like I will. I am also a complete smartass and love to make people laugh. I am extremely open minded and will try almost anything one. Except skydiving, I'm a chickensh*t and afraid of heights. I don't play games and I am not into drama. So if you want someone that loyal, will give you the shirt of his back, and will always treat you with respect then message me. You won't be disapointed.