So I am 50 – somewhere along the line I lost the thrill of the hunt. Years of dating has produced many interesting friendships/relationships. I have fallowed my heart and came up lost. I have listened to my head yet I am still alone. Not a very alluring opening statement yet it is the truth. The truth so many people desire but shy from.
The past is history cannot be changed. It is similar to a Netflix series. The first episodes are disturbing yet intriguing. The viewer wonders how the lead characters can be the way they are and as the flash back episodes appear the total character becomes apparent. Most people don’t want to take the time, invest the effort for the total tale. Personalities are like books – dating is like a movie of that book – profiles are just trailers. Here is my trailer -------
The problem with listing what you are looking for is people try to mold themselves to fit your standard but can't keep the shape.
Sometimes a different perspective is more interesting than a "yes" person.
The problem with listing who I am - is i am rather flexible. I don't set myself up to fit any one category.
We have all read it before. The people who type words, of who they wish they were.
The users that use false flattery to get an in but then leave just as quickly.
Every one clamors for honesty but few people can handle the truth.
What is the truth anyhow?
It is just someone’s perception of an event, even if that event happens to be their life.
Today is your most important time frame. What you do today. Will it help humanity? another person? or just be self centered self gratification?
Really, what’s does it matter what you have or haven’t done? – seen or haven’t seen? – is it ever to late to start living? - is it ever too early to do it all again? is any activity so important it can’t be replaced? Is anything so scary it can't be explored? Is any ideology so embedded it cant be debated?
These are the questions
Maybe that is my quandary. I want to do it all and not limit myself to one box.
It is not enough to see out side of the box - you have to BE outside of the box.
The best fuel for friendship is fun.
F U N
enjoyment, amusement, or lighthearted pleasure.
I am on POF for fun but not at the expense of others.
The up side is anything can be fun! Sure there are things i prefer over others but if i have the time I am up for most anything.
I am a quirky individual that has amassed a large bit of knowledge about a whole lot of nothing and I am more than willing to share.
So if i send you a note, insight, poem, quote, opinion, and/or observation it is because i believe you would be fun to converse with and possibly meet. Its just a spark. Nothing more. One individual interested in conversing with another. Sometimes its out of shear boredom.
I have a busy schedule but i find a lot of down time between assignments so the internet is my ward.
Human nature amuses me. People easily claim things they can't fallow, the only person they hurt is them selves.
I am very self aware, whimsical, yet deep.
I try to live up to the standard of being open minded and empathetic.
If you want to know any thing else drop me a note ~Dave~
You tell me and I will be there. I realize some people do not deal well with typed words. I have nothing to hide and do not mind meeting new people. I do have busy schedule but there is a lot of down time if your flexible. I am not a pushy person and like for people to enter into a meeting with me at their own pace and a location that makes them most comfortable.