Trying to be cool had its results but just takes too much work, worrying what to wear, what to say, how to act. The key word is act. I have been single for lots of years, reality has shown most will look at the picture and not even read this. Those who are not so vain tend to pick apart what’s left. It equally surprises me how many people go after me after they hear about my bike yet as many reject me when read I own one. What is the solution? If you list all your wants and desires some one attach themselves to the one thing they like or like wise reject you because of something you do or don’t list. Worse than anything the profile looks like 10000 others then it falls back to the picture.
How can some one actually resemble a second in time? Life is in ones eyes, the sparkle, the goodness, the evil, and malice it is all there.. Sure biology, chemistry, and proximity play a major part in a relationship but a friendship knows no bounds. I can list my accomplishments but in reality they mean nothing to what I do tomorrow.
My resume is endless and I will try just about anything (except roller blades/ skis believe me I've tried and I just don’t bounce back now a days like I used to). I can be anything to anybody. I do all this out of a natural curiosity and a courtesy to the person I am with, not just to impress them but to learn from them. God provides for me. Being a Gemini I strive for balance. The poet in me sees things most miss. The kid in me will play any game. The adult in me keeps me responsible. I can chat with just about anyone that’s open minded. What’s with unanswered ice breakers? If you can't be honest enough to answer a compliment in this forum how can one hope to ever communicate with reality? A "thanks but no thanks" won't break my heart and a "gee lets talk" won't make me stalk you. I hope for the same. I find a well written profile very beautiful and vanity rather ugly so if you get an ice breaker from me its not just an invitation to communicate its an compliment to your written word and /or smile. After all isn't that why we are all here, to be able to communicate with someone and to be able to share thoughts, goals, and desires because if you can’t find that anything else is futile.
You tell me and I will be there. I realize some people do not deal well with typed words. I have nothing to hide and do not mind meeting new people. I do have busy schedule but there is a lot of down time if your flexible. I am not a pushy person and like for people to enter into a meeting with me at their own pace and a location that makes them most comfortable.