I like to cook so I would suggest I make something for us to eat while we enjoy some music while we eat and talk and share things a out each other. I dunno why but I love to throw scrabble into the mix on the first/second date, just to see who um dealing with. You never really know someone till you've played them in scrabble... that and twister, lol. Drinks all the way through the date too, just as a relaxer (cough). Maybe take a stroll through one of our faboulous local parks (what?! Some are really nice). I don't like watching a movie on a first date. Someone usually falls asleep or you finish The movie not knowing any more about the person than before.
Its best to do something that allows you to have a conversation.