Update: Looks like I'm staying in the San Diego area...Key West was too hot!...busy unpacking, so will check in soon! ; )
I am really just a slightly goofy, childlike, over-curious adventurer. I love to try new things, meet new People and I love to learn! I have embraced ADHD and the many unique and cReative voices in my head...It's a party up in there! Things that get me Excited: energy/mind/body connection, live music (current Fav is reggae), tantra, philosophy, learning about other cultures, travel, cooking, Entrepreneurial ideas, ecommerce, international travel shows/HGTV, Real estate flipping, massage & natural hEaling techniques/modalities, writing and generally aNything Creative, informational, advEnturous or absurd.
I am very non-judGmental and open-minded and would consider myself a passionate "free spirit" blended with a dose of nerdy intellectual curiosity and number-crunching business sense. I have been accused of having a "hippy" mIndset; however, I do shave my legs, wear perfume and makeup, love to wear a sexy dress and heels from time to time though you will more than likely find me barefoot in a sarong or a pair of jeans. I love healthy food and have even considered a more Vegetarian lifestyle if it weren't for my Kryptonite: Cheesecake and Bacon!! I have a kind heart and am Extremely honest and loyal, though my mildly sarcastic sense of humor and dry wit gets me in trouble from time to time...as does my spontaneous and slightly retarded behavior and inappropriate Need to "air-hump." I really don't know what to say for myself on that one. : (
While I used to be pretty athletic and enjoy a good game of Tackle-anything (I have brothers)...I do have a Wicked clumsy side! Right now I am recovering from some health issues that have slowed me down quite a bit, so mud wrestling may have to wait. As to my mysterious child status...I was a foster mom for a while. I still have One daughter in my life. I met her when she was 13 and became a foster parent in order to get custody of her when she was 16. She is married now and lives in another state, but she is my heart.
One of my favorite quotes:
"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy SH*T what a ride!'" ~Hunter S. Thompson"
So what am I looking for?
Excessive laughter and great conversation is a definite requirement. Clever wit turns me on, and a beautiful smile is intoxicating! I would love to find an adventurous "Partner in crime" who could either curl up on the couch with me or let me talk them into one of the many precarious "situAtions" I regularly find myself in from my impulsive curioSity. I love to hang around positive people who can find humor and meaning when life hands them a crap-Sandwich, someone who asks what they can learn from a dark predicament Instead of being pissed off that it happened and someOne who can turn anything into an adveNture! It's also essential to be around people who understand my current medicAl challenges...I have good days and slow days, Though I don't let that stop me from living in the momEnt.
I like people who have a Kind heart and don't shy away from reaching out to others. I am drawn to passionate people who understand the power of Intention and have a desire to live an extraordinary life. I am not a girl who is stuck in what society thinks that I Should be doing, so someone who is open-minded and free-spirited with a lot of curiosity about life would be intoxicating. I have dated people from many different cultures, but wouldn't say I have a specific type. Many of my former boyfriends or lovers still continue to be good friendS..(jealous is a major turn-off to me.) I don't have a "desperate nEed" to be in a couple..feel comfortable single. Ive been polyamorous in the past, not so much as a lifestyle choice, but rather because I've dated people who weren't quite right for a relationship but were wonderful people who became lovers and who continue to be good friends. I have also been in plenty of wonderful long-term monogamous relationships. I'm not looking for a quick shag...connection, friendship and laughter with someone I have chemistry with is what turns me on, but I am definitely not looking to "land a boyfriend" overnight...I like getting to know people outside their "best foot forward" stage before making those kind of declarations, but I am a Romantic, sensual girl and open to loving someone special. Eventually, it would be great to find someone to travel this journey with me and be available to rub Bengay on the spots I can't reach when I am old...and Still getting into trouble!