Hey, I'm Shay. I decided to rewrite this portion of my profile after 4 yrs on POS. Gonna cut to the chase about myself because I have learned very few of you actually read it throughly.. I'm a mom of 2 daughters, and am not having anymore children. I am an RN tho temporarely unemployed after taking some time off after caring for my parents who have both passed away in the last 2 years which has also left me with caring for my mentally disabled sister. It's been tough going from 2 TO 3 kids. I've been told I'm country as a dozen eggs, and I agree. You must know I have a filthy mouth, tho not proud of it, it is what it is.I am independent because I've had no choice but to learn how to fix things and take care of a household.I am a great cook, we rarely eat out. I love to spend time outdoors piddlin in my shop and my yard. I love to make people laugh, and am not embarressed to go to great lengths at times to get one. I don't drink unless I go out which is very rare. Love a variety of music, but country is my first love. Love to dance, ride horses, camp, fish... over the years I have met a lot of nice men from this site, and have made a few good friends for life but I have never had a real connection with anyone. This site has taught me that a "man's word", means very little. I have been stood up more times than I can count, which I'll never understand with me being the one asked out. Is it a cruel secret game you guys play? And what is the point? I have also learned altho YOUR profile may state u want a relationship, u'd really just be happy with a piece of a$$, and be on your merry way. I AM AS REAL AS IT GETS, ALL OF THE TIME! I am who i am, take it or leave it. And I realize I am not everyones cup of tea, but I do think I am a damn good catch. I am a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. I say what I mean, and mean what I say. And I don't say things I don't mean, because that can tend to lead a person on. I do not need to be woooed or fed a bunch a bulshit, or led to believe that you have a real interest in me to get your "rocks " off! Hell, im a woman who has needs too, let's just be upfront and honest about it, lol!I just want someone and something that is real I would very much like to just find a man who has some what the same interests and thinkin.
This is going to sound rude but at this point..... if u message me, and I do not message back it's because I am not attracted to you either physically or there was something in your profile that turned me off, which could just be your location. I am not interested in a long distance relationship it's hard enough to make time for a someone that lives in the same city. Nor am I interested in a man whose career keeps them from home weeks, months, or years at a time. I am not prejudice but do not date outside my race because I am not typically physically attracted. Please do not be offended, just wanna save you some time, and not waste it. Hope this " new and improved", no bull $hit, profile will be a good filter. We shall see, only time will tell:)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
No movie theatre, cant get to know someone if you cant talk,lol!
P.S. if you are not legally single, please do not contact me.