Since moving from Long Beach, CA to Oceanside, I haven't been especially successful at meeting a mutually compatible lady to romantically befriend, which kind of bums-me-out, because if one stops and thinks about it, even a horrible person like Adolf Hitler had a girlfriend. In the past, I'd relied entirely on face-to-face introductions, but ladies my age group don't frequent the night spots like the younger people do. Describing myself: I'm known for my niceness, having a considerate gentleman-like nature, being easy-going, displaying an oddball sense of humor, along with being conversationally engaging. I've never been married and I have no children of my own, though I genuinely like all kids, and remember what it was like being 15 years old with a divorced Mom who began dating again. Half my life has been spent in Socal, and the other half in Ohio.
My hope is to socialize with those living in Northern SD County, Fallbrook, Temecula, or the South Orange County area. My apologies to any worthy people living outside this radius, but like so many others, I really don't like driving my automobile in Southern California's rush-hour traffic gridlock and am a bit adverse to repeatedly driving beyond a certain distance from my home.
It would be nice to meet someone on POF who is kind-hearted, smart & educated, cool in some way, and have reasonably maintained their attractive qualities as they got older. For better or for worse, it helps to be attracted to someone in order to consent to meet them face-to-face, though the concept of "attraction" takes into account more than just a pretty exterior. As for having personal hobbies; I'm a fairly committed fingerstyle guitarist (i.e. - someone who fingerpicks while playing the guitar). In the past, I've been involved with instrumental music composing, studio recording, and public performing. I dig most music genres, except Rap, which is really irritating (It ought to have a "C" for the first letter in front of the "R" - I'd rather hear a car alarm blaring-away on my street.). Despite the great artwork, I'm a bit put-off by abundant tattoos on ladies, with the exception of tats commemorating deceased loved ones, which are different.
Whether alone or with friends, I try to travel periodically to European to see what the rest of the world looks like and have an adventure. From my home-based office, my livelihood includes being a self-employed consultant who works for various clients. There's an elevated level of responsibility involved in my job, but after the workday is over, I can joke-around and be an knucklehead.
For exercise I enjoy bicycling, frequent long walks in my neighborhood, and light workouts. Admittedly, my body is still in the process of recovering from tonsil cancer and treatments experienced during 2011. It's like getting back into shape after having a baby (more like having quintuplets). I was out of circulation for more than a year, however. Also admittedly, it may be premature for me to even be actively listed on POF, because currently, I'm experiencing some temporary swelling beneath my right eye, which is a byproduct from the previous radiation treatments, which makes my mug-shot photos look kind of unbalanced. Doc says it will go away one day. That's the story.
Though there's nothing wrong with getting together for a delicious "Happy Meal", I'd probably just talk with the other person and try to meet-up at some convenient, mutually agreed upon venue, and then try to enjoy the company and the occasion. Generally, I like eating at nice restaurants or listening to talented musicians doing their thing. Frequently, when I listen to live music, I feel this irrational urge to grab my guitar and join in.
I suspect it would be an uncomfortable experience to interact with someone who misrepresents themselves on POF (Plenty Of Fishy-ness occurring in those instances). Based on their photos, I've occasionally questioned the listed ages of some folks on POF.
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