.I would like to be friends first and see where that takes us. If you are only wanting to get freaky then just keep looking because Im not here fishing for****. I have been without true love for f ar too long and i need to be loved and spoiled with affection. I am in a marriage that have no love or passion and to be quite honest my husband is a complete nut job. ? I have been lied to and cheated on and after finding ONE of his many pof accounts have decided its time to look for a real honest man. I am used to hard times as my husband is a lot like peter pan and has never grown up and gotten a real job/career. Please dont read this and think i am just a complainer, i am sharing this so that if there are any more lost boys out there they will know not to fish here. I want a real grown up man with goals and values. You can be real and please do be real as i am a real woman who needs a real man. I know my husband is still fishing. I ill not nor have i tried to hide my intentions from him or anyone nor will I. So are you out there? Ill be waiting!!