Let me begin by saying that I'm a 31 year old Systems Analyst (for those who aren’t familiar with the I.T. field, I basically ensure various applications, servers & workstations, as well as the overall network is working properly for many of our different clients). So yes, I’m a bit of a computer nerd but whatever if I can get paid well for doing something I'd probably do for free then I feel that's a personal victory for me. I'm a very self-sufficient person (I have a great career, my own place, my own car, etc), so I don't need anything from woman besides her love & companionship...that's it!
I also want to say my life is drama free & fairly simple & I want it to stay that way. I don't have any drama over here. Anyway, I'm just at a point in my life where I need a BIG CHANGE and I'm not afraid to make a few sacrifices to get what I want, which is a good woman I can grow together with on many different levels. Now that I've had some time to just focus on my education, my career, and recover from a few bad dating experiences...I'm finally ready to start a new life, meet new people, and do bigger and better things w/ one special woman that I can love, cherish, respect, and treat like a natural born Queen for the rest of her life and hopefully she'd be willing to return the love!!!
A FEW THINGS YOU MAY WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ME BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW ME:
1. I'M A BIG ROMANTIC AT HEART...I HAVE QUALITIES OF A ROMANTIC, HOWEVER THIS PARTICULAR CHARACTERISTIC, ALONG W/ BEING AN OVERALL GENTLEMAN HASN'T GOTTEN ME TOO FAR IN TERMS OF FINDING THE RIGHT WOMAN...BUT I REFUSE TO BECOME A D-BAG OR A**HOLE JUST BECOME THAT'S WHAT WOMEN SEEM TO PREFER THESE DAYS...I WON'T EVER CHANGE WHO I AM, BUT INSTEAD WAIT PATIENTLY FOR A WOMAN WHO WILL RECOGNIZE & APPRECIATE A GOOD MAN WHEN SHE SEES ONE!
2. I CAN BE REALLY DORKY/GOOFY AT TIMES!
3. I'M A VERY SUPPORTIVE PERSON, I RATHER GO OUT MY WAY to HELP BUILD SOMEONE UP THAN to BRING THEM DOWN
4. I'M A HUGE ADVOCATE OF DIVERSITY...I HAVE FRIENDS & HAVE DATED PEOPLE FROM ALL DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS AND ETHNICITIES.
I graduated from Univ. of Houston with a B.S. Degree in Computer Information Systems. I recently decided I want to go to Grad school and get my Masters in Computer Engineering, b/c I know so many more career paths will open up for me as far as advancing my career. However, I eventually want to start my own business, so that I'm not making someone else rich for the rest of my life.
Basically I consider myself to be very genuine, intelligent, outgoing, open-minded individual, and occasionally goofy. I'm on here to meet new people and hopefully establish some new friendships with some smart, goal-oriented, down to earth, open-minded females...and hopefully find a woman that I can make my life long companion!
My interests as far as leisure activities generally consist of watching & playing a lot of sports (primarily basketball and football). I also like to listen to a lot of music, and I’m into Hip/Hop, R&B, Alternative Rock, Reggae, and Raggaeton! When I’m not occupied with work or school, I like to go out to the clubs, movies, restaurants, bowling. I also LOVE to travel. I’ve done a lot of traveling throughout the country, but now I'm focusing more on visiting some places outside the US. So if anybody’s looking for a travel buddy then I’m definitely your man!
Overall I'm just a very positive, optimistic, and outgoing individual who enjoys being around other people who also possess those same qualities (in other words, if you're a negative Nancy, don't bother writing me). Eventually I want an old school love...what’s my idea of an old school love you ask? Well, it’s that kind of love to people have where they’re totally invested in each other from beginning to end...having that special woman I will always look forward to spending quality time with after a long work week...holding my woman in my arms, look her in the eyes, and she knows exactly what I’m thinking without me not having to say a word...old school love that’s founded on strong communication, honesty, and trust...in addition to being each others support system through thick & then...both people working hard to invest all they have to nurture the relationship to ensure constant growth! That’s the kind of love I want...and if I can’t have that type of old school love, then I don’t want it at all...I know I can offer the right woman a great love that's undying...and if I can't get that same love reciprocated, then I will remain single for as long as it takes...simply because I'm not the one to settle for less than what I know I deserve...PERIOD!
FYI: I'm NOT on here looking for friends w/ benefits, one-night stands, or whatever degrading sexually encounters people join these "dating" websites for these days...trust me, I actually believe in something called respect...respect for myself as well as others!