Let me begin by saying that I'm a Systems Analyst. So yes, I'm a computer nerd stuck inside a jock's body..because I LOVE sports just a little bit more than the I.T. field! LOL But whatever if I can get paid well for doing something I'd probably do for free then I feel that's a personal victory for me. I'm a very self-sufficient person & have my own, so I don't need anything from woman besides her love & companionship...that's it!
I also want to say my life is drama free & fairly simple & I want it to stay that way. I don't have any drama over here. Anyway, I'm looking for a sweet, down-to-earth woman that I can grow together with on many different levels. I'm finally ready to start a new life with a special woman that I can love, cherish, respect, and treat like a natural born Queen for the rest of her life (so if marriage isn't in your foreseeable future, then we are not going to be a match unfortunately). Even though Im well aware of the fact that money & material things can't buy love, I'm still the type that loves to SPOIL my woman...especially if she's the type that never ask for much & she enjoys going above & beyond to make sure that I'm happy.
A FEW THINGS YOU MAY WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ME BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW ME:
1. I'M A BIG ROMANTIC AT HEART...I HAVE QUALITIES OF A ROMANTIC, HOWEVER THIS PARTICULAR CHARACTERISTIC, ALONG W/ BEING AN OVERALL GENTLEMAN HASN'T GOTTEN ME TOO FAR IN TERMS OF FINDING THE RIGHT WOMAN...BUT I REFUSE TO BECOME A D-BAG OR A**HOLE JUST BECOME THAT'S WHAT WOMEN SEEM TO PREFER THESE DAYS...I WON'T EVER CHANGE WHO I AM, BUT INSTEAD WAIT PATIENTLY FOR A WOMAN WHO WILL RECOGNIZE & APPRECIATE A GOOD MAN WHEN SHE SEES ONE!
2. I CAN BE REALLY DORKY/GOOFY AT TIMES!
3. I'M A VERY SUPPORTIVE PERSON, I RATHER GO OUT MY WAY TO HELP BUILD SOMEONE UP THAN TO BRING THEM DOWN
4. I'M OPEN TO DATING ALL RACES, BUT THE LAST 12 YEARS (A 7-YEAR RELATIONSHIP & A 5-YEAR RELATIONSHIP) HAVE BEEN SPENT DATING HISPANIC WOMEN. SO I KNOW HOW TO SPEAK SPANGLISH VERY WELL! LOL
I graduated college with a B.S. Degree in Computer Information Systems. However, I eventually want to start my own business, so that I'm not making someone else rich for the rest of my life. Basically I consider myself to be very genuine, intelligent, outgoing, open-minded individual, and occasionally goofy. I'm on here to meet new people and hopefully establish some new friendships with some smart, goal-oriented, down to earth, open-minded females...and hopefully find a woman that I can make my life long companion!
My interests as far as leisure activities generally consist of watching & playing a lot of sports (primarily basketball and football). I also like to listen to a lot of music, and I’m into Hip/Hop, R&B, Alternative Rock, Reggae, and Raggaeton! When I’m not occupied with work or school, I like to go out to a nice lounge (including the hookah ones), movies, restaurants, bowling. I also LOVE to travel. I’ve done a lot of traveling throughout the country, but now I'm focusing more on visiting some places outside the US. So if anybody’s looking for a travel buddy then I’m definitely your man!
Overall I'm just a very positive, optimistic, and outgoing individual who enjoys being around other people who also possess those same qualities (in other words, if you're a negative Nancy, don't bother writing me). Eventually I want an old school love...what’s my idea of an old school love you ask? Well, it’s that kind of love 2 people have where they’re totally invested in each other from beginning to end...having that special woman I will always look forward to spending quality time with after a long work week...holding my woman in my arms, look her in the eyes, and she knows exactly what I’m thinking without me not having to say a word...old school love that’s founded on strong communication, honesty, and trust...in addition to being each others support system through thick & then...both people working hard to invest all they have to nurture the relationship to ensure constant growth! That’s the kind of love I want...and if I can’t have that type of old school love, then I don’t want it at all...I know I can offer the right woman a great love that's undying...and if I can't get that same love reciprocated, then I will remain single for as long as it takes...simply because I'm not the one to settle for less than what I know I deserve...PERIOD!
FYI: I'm NOT on here looking for friends w/ benefits, one-night stands, or whatever degrading sexually encounters people join these "dating" websites for these days...trust me, I actually believe in something called respect...respect for myself as well as others!
WHY TECHNOLOGY & SOCIAL MEDIA MAKE DATING IS POINTLESS NOWADAYS
Technology & Social Media in general is the reason why courtship is dead & the reason why dating is pointless nowadays. Nobody wants to establish a relationship the old fashion way by talking on the phone, going out on dates, & really becoming good friends before entering a relationship. Two people can't establish a meaningful relationship by hiding behind a computer or phone...only communicating via text, email, Instant Messenger, Facebook, Twitter, & Instagram. I hate to be the bearer of bad news people, but dating & relationships require actual work, meaning two people actually putting forth a valid effort to learn everything there is to know about each other.