Does anyone know how to write or carry on a conversation anymore? I am not in a rush. If messaging me on here a few days & writing in sentences is bothersome, we probably wouldn't match very well. Good things take time.
I'm looking for: a good, kind, affectionate man. If you read this far...well then, thank you! I am into getting a great cup of coffee, occasional lounges, movies, cultural events, museums, exploring a new city together etc. Do you volunteer, or mentor or do something positive?? I'm looking for someone that's not selfish!
I am just as comfortable in sweats at home hanging out on the couch while you watch a game than I am in heels dining at a restaurant, I can be flexible when necessary. I have finished my 2nd masters degree, and with my kids being older, now it's time for "me." I listen to all kinds of music from country to trap and everything in between. I enjoy cooking, spoiling, and being spoiled....keep in mind, there is more than 1 way to spoil someone--it is with time and attention. If you do not know how to hold a conversation with substance and all you talk about are your designer possessions and shopping trips--I'm not interested. That gets boring pretty quick. Been there, done that. A real woman won't care about your labels. Being humble is good for you!! Funny how men will go and complain about these certain types of superficial women but you end up with exactly what you project! You get what you give.
Just looking for a good man that gets it!!
Message me "Hello" and I will do the same. If you have something resembling a tree growing off your face, sorry--not interested. Not interested in men with braids, dreads, or hair longer than mine. I prefer clean cut and a neat beard. I don't do "friends with benefits." Many of the men on here are all looking for a friend. I'm looking for my future, you don't have to agree, but I'm being clear in what I'm looking for : ) So I won't respond to everyone.
Disclaimer: I meet so many men who tell me they are going away for vacation. I ask where, and they say Dominican Republic on an "all boys" trip. Ok, enjoy, but I can't and won't take you seriously after that. It actually grosses me out. C'mon, this is not Spring Break, and you're not 20 yrs old anymore.