Opening up my inbox to the same message of "hi" or "sexy" is getting boring and leads to me hitting the "block" button.Looking for something is a guaranteed way to not find it. So that being said, I am not looking for a relationship 1st, I am looking for a friend--who knows what can happen from there? Not looking for a "text buddy" though.The texting should lead up to us hanging out. I do not have a job, I have a career. Sometimes I cannot see you, not because I don't want to but because I might have to work late, or bring work home and stay up all nite. So you should have your own career, and your own life to keep you busy and when we make time for eachother it is blissful ; ) Be confident and secure! Have your goals accomplished or working on making them happen!
Hoping I might meet an honest man that reads (at least once in a while), can hold an intelligent conversation, and likes to go out sometimes (drinks/lounge) . I love intelligence! We should be able to read at home in our sweats, even if you're reading the sports section and i'm lost in a novel. He lives somewhat close to me and wants to become my friend 1st. He should work out a few times a week and be healthy! When time allows he will be willing to roll up his sleeves, put on a hairnet and gloves and help out in the soup kitchen with me. I can't stand selfish or materialistic men that only care about acquiring materialistic things, so while a luxury car is great, please have something more going for you. I'm just looking for "genuine" & someone with a good heart and as simple as that sounds, it is hard to find. If you have anger issues, chip on your shoulder issues, hold resentment inside and enjoy lying, please pass me over!
This man means what he says, and says what he means. Actions really are everything. Don't say it--and not be able to follow up. Be emotionally available not so guarded that you don't let anyone in, and preferably have kids. I like to be spoiled, keep in mind there is more than one way to spoil someone--it 's with time and loyalty. I give a lot and so I expect it in return.
I am old fashioned with dating and would love for you to take charge and take care of the details!Surprise me, i love surprises. Although for first dates, aka "meet and greets," coffee always works.