The other day I was told "you need to become a dateable ***hole." Wtf does that even mean???? Well I did some research and there are three stages for dating for men. Stage one nice guy. This is the guy that does everything right. Girls don't like this its to easy not a challenge. Stage 2 douchebag. This is where the nice guy had enough of being to nice and now is a total douche, meaning he only cares about himself. Girls flock to this for some reason.Stage 3 can only happen if you have experienced the first 2. Stage 3 is where you are confident, mature, gentleman and this makes you irresistible. Apparently I have been stuck on stage 1.