Me? I put up with family (but love them fiercly), love my friends, and prefer a great time relaxing & joking around with drinks around a bonfire to a stress-filled night of going downtown. That said, every now and then I like to pretend I'm a flashy kind of guy & go downtown for some drinks, laughs, and general debauchery. Outdoor activities are always a plus, especially anything involving getting out in nature for a while (but I still enjoy the comforts of city living)! Most of my friends are life-long and like family to me - if you can't deal with them, you can't deal with me!
An update: I FINALLY quit smoking in early September! That said, I do have a few chain-smoking fiends for friends who might be able to still con me into one when I'm out drinking. I've also taken up running, a sport I cannot understand how anyone fiercely enjoys... however I did log 30 miles last month & am aiming to beat that this month. I refuse to say I like running however :)
What the hell is the fun in knowing what the person you're dating will do for a first date? No matter what we do, if you're laid back and fun we'll have a blast. If you have to know where I might take us, you're probably not the right person for me.