I'm currently living in Minnesota and planning to move somewhere warm as soon as possible. My profile may say I'm located elsewhere so I can see matches in different locations and hopefully end up finding a great place to live. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship, just looking for love like we all are and I'm willing to relocate to be closer to you. This doesn't mean we need to rush things or that I'm dependant on you for my well-being. I just realize how hard it is to find someone after 40, and that my perfect match may not be located within a 50 mile radious.
I love entertaining at my home, camping / cabins (preferably with a bed, shower, and electricity, but I can also rough it on occasion), dining out, wine tasting, and a variety of other things. I believe it’s not most important what you’re doing, but who you’re doing it with. I am a wine drinker though and want to share that with someone, so if you're a non-drinker then we probably are not a match.
I love to travel and want to see the world with someone special. I love music and enjoy a wide variety of genres - 70’s, 80’s classic rock, blues, funk, soul, soft rock, love songs, duets… basically what I call ‘sing along’ music. I'm not into heavy metal, alternative rock or gangster rap. I enjoy live music, and love the sound of a great voice, a guitar or a saxophone.
I have no relationship baggage or drama and I’m a giver in relationships, which means I try to be thoughtful and considerate of my partner and not just myself, and I like the same trait in my partner.
I’m seeking a committed relationship with someone who is genuine, caring, responsible, respectful to others, and has a good sense of humor. I believe trust is key. You will never have reason to distrust me, and that should work both ways. Jealousy and neediness are unattractive, yet staying connected even while apart strengthens a relationship and allows it to grow.
Chemistry & physical attraction are important to me. You don’t have to be great looking, but you do have to be in decent shape and take care of your appearance. I like a clean shaven face (no facial hair) and a great smile, and the personality does the rest.
You must be relationship oriented, available to spend time together, not a serial dater, and not too addicted to this site to get off of it. Please have a CURRENT picture that accurately represents who you are, and please no form letters or one-sentence emails if you're truly interested. I know the number one complaint from most men on here is that women don’t respond to their emails, so please write something worth responding to. And sign your name, for crying out loud. :)
And guys, when I said I’m not attracted to facial hair, please take that seriously and don’t waste our time. It’s not just a looks thing, so even if you think yours looks okay, think about how you would like a bunch of needles getting stuck up your nose while you’re trying to kiss someone?
Wishing you the best of luck finding your true love!