A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.” - Max Lucado
Dear Single Men: there is a wife in waiting who can fulfill your needs & give you your heart's desire, but you can miss her if you allow temporary sexual thrills with different women to ruin your chance at a fulfilling, passionate life-long love affair with a beautiful woman who wants to be ur heart's desire. Bouncing from bed to bed, woman to woman diminishes the natural desire given to u to practice with ur wife. Detach yourself from cheap thrills & the woman of your dreams will appear. ~Ty Adams quotes
"I want to be pursued. I want to be courted and sought as a future wife. I want it to be clear that your interested in me where theres no guessing games. I want u to clearly exhibit your intentions so that I can make an informed decision on if I want to be part of what u are seeking. Show me...not just tell me. And when you do this out of right intention and good deed, showing me u got my back and ur for me, you will begin to experience the sweet nectar of my fruit and won't wanna the taste of another woman". Fashionique
We all have a lists, right? Some are shorter or longer than others......here's mine:
- intelligent and well rounded
- fun, free spirited and young at heart
- energetic and work out
- sweet and considerate
- passionate and loving
- outgoing and adventurous
- love to laugh; silly at times
- sassy and sophisticated
- business minded and goal oriented
- giving and dedicated
- faithful and attentive
- balanced in good standard morals and values
- I love the Lord and attend church
- a mix of old school and modern day flavor
- absolutely no tolerance to ignorance, lying, games.........
- natural...i don't like all the weaves, fake lashes, fake nails and toe nails, caked on make up, colored contacts and the. Not knocking anybody who does it but just not for me........
- know the art of "courting" a woman. U understand after a week or two of dating, we're not in a relationship.
- are positive minded and see that glass as half full, not half empty; no bad tempers. I won't deal with a bad temper.No so serious. Smile :)
- Don't play games.....I don't have time for games. If I detect it, I'm out. Bottom line. NO mind or strategic games to supposedly test me. Be real.Some examples of the games are:
"You're waiting for me to make the first move......waiting for me to call first........waiting for me to offer the first date. Going dutch. Listen, if this describes you, stay the hell away. For real. I'm a lady with many old fashioned values that many men can't relate to which includes expecting a MAN to pursue me. If you're that guy that likes an aggressive, new age woman chasing after u, it isn't me. That's sheer, utter ridiculousness brought on by a misconstrued perception of female independence taken too far and by spoiled, lazy men used to thirsty desperates coming after them.........that's one reason y dating is so crazy and challenging. Revisit my anthem above for clarification.........and if u still don't get it or can't relate, bypass my page and move forward.
- not a text junkie. I'M NOT AN AVID TEXTER as I believe in communication the old fashioned way...actually talking on the phone.
- are not hood or a thug. I don't date thuggish, ruggish, ghetto men. I like class n sophistication. No sagging jeans and speak proper English.
- mature....I'm open to dating guys just a tad younger than me but if you're immature, it's a wrap.
- intelligent; challenge me intellectually with good conversation and no potty mouths (I don't care for profuse cursing, major turnoff)
- athletic, in shape and at least 5'9". I'm not into overweight or short guys. Sounds shallow I know but honestly, we all have our preferences.
- attractive and well groomed.........a good, fresh smelling man is a turn on...get's the pheromones going.
- past the old relationship baggage. Don't punish me for the women who used, abused and mistreated u. I deserve better and prime treatment.
- attentive.....compassionate and passionate. I love a man that showers me with attention.
- a go getter. U don't sit back and wait but go after what u want...that includes the girl.
- generous and financially secure.......
- outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous ......enjoy dining n hanging out, traveling, experimenting with different interests, etc.
- laughable and likes having a good time...I love to be silly and laugh! Life is too short to be serious all the time.
- honest, respectful, faithful and kind...these should be unsaid, natural traits.
- balanced in good standard morals and values.
- have a sense of modesty and decency in how u present and carry yourself ( no half naked pic men, throwing gang signs, flashing money, etc )
-spiritual and God fearing. Walking around quoting scripture isn't necessary but your not completely ignorant of His word either.
So...lets connect, converse, laugh, learn and drive from there.....:) Talk to u soon! :):) Take Care
AND I DO DATE OUTSIDE MY RACE...:)
P.S. Please greet me as a person, not a sex kitten or toy. I cannot stand the "hey sexy", "damn, u sexy as hell", " u fine as a mutha%^$#@" or "hey mami". Really? Where's the respect?