A woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.”
- Max Lucado
Now, a little about me:
I'm a sweet, fun person who strives to live right by good morals and values....... I work out, enjoy hanging out and trying new things...meeting new people and have a good heart......... Educated, intellectual, free spirited and spontaneous but also have my moments of being reserved and quiet...............Dedicated and loyal. I'm always discovering new things about myself.....more likes and dislikes. I have a bit of an aggressive side I've discovered which I want to channel through the right mechanisms.........I like a rush......excitement:).........I can be brutally honest at times which I think is both good and bad..... gotta know how to play it appropriately..... I get straight to the point....literally.........I detest arguing and believe u have to fight fair in getting ur point across.........Sassy and sophisticated as I am a mix of old school and modern day flavor.
I also take pride in being as natural as possible in how I carry myself. I see so many women with these butt long weaves, fake eyelashes, fake nails and toenails, colored contacts, butt pads, etc. It's just ridiculous to me. To each its own of course as there's nothing wrong with wanting to enhance oneself but many of these things just aren't for me.........
A man with some sense of modesty. If you have purposeful pics of your self posted half naked, shirt off flexing trying to show off your abs and/or holding ur "package", DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!! That is an annoyance. I prefer someone who chooses to keep it closed until its opened for me, not the world. How you present urself in ur pics says a lot about u.......Nothing wrong with a little peek-a-boo but full pics of you, nah...I'll pass n that......
A GOOD HEARTED MAN with a good foundation of morals of values.......u treat others how you would like to be treated. U LOVE THE LORD and strive to live right, staying away from the bad......One who is ATHLETIC and active (I'm not into heavy men)......at least 5'9 (sorry that may sound shallow but we like what we like and I don't do well with short men) .....takes pride in his appearance and has good hygiene.....DOESNT HAVE A POTTY MOUTH FULL OF CURSE WORDS where every other word is just that....cursing........ Likes to laugh and have fun........ PASSIONATE, ATTENTIVE AND FAITHFUL.....who can CHALLENGE ME INTELLECTUALLY as I enjoy having stimulating conversations and desire to have someone who can relate......A SENSE OF ADVENTURE..…let’s go skydiving, race car driving, water or jet skiing.......perhaps hot air ballooning, horse back riding or helicopter over the city..... Spontaneity is the spice of life so let's relish it. Life is too short to stay in a small, safe box.....A TRUE GENTLEMAN respectful of women; wants to BE THE HEAD AND NOT THE TAIL but takes his woman's insight to heart....... U TAKE INITIATIVE in going after what u want and not wait to be lead...a GO GETTER......Ur PATIENT, KIND, COMPASSIONATE AND GENEROUS as u care beyond yourself.....someone who DOES SOMETHING JUST BECAUSE i.e flowers on a Tuesday not just for a special holiday........doesn't have to be a reason...and certainly let's not forget HONESTY as that should be an unsaid necessity.....
I have to be honest...I've noticed that many men find it necessary to flaunt "paper", cars and clothes in their profile pics or talk about it as a reflection of what their main pursuit is or to gain some sense of favorable acknowledgement when in actuality, it looks ridiculously materialistic. Don't come at me like u have to buy me or approach me as an automatic gold digger as if that sweetens the pot..........Don't get me wrong......we all love making money including me and like very nice things.......ideally having a lifestyle undefined by limits and prices tags and living comfortably, however, it's about your value of it. Have u ever stop to think that you may attract the wrong type of woman? Not to mention how you look.......... It reminds me of those rap videos (and I love rap...lol) where u see these clueless rappers throwing money all around like it's all about the "dough" ....the lifestyle of women, cash and cars and it's totally ridiculous.....it speaks of your level of maturity..........Not to mention what's the point?....Yes, a true man should have a job and be in a position to provide as I am old school and desire this but for me, this aspect of advertisement is a true turn off....and I am just speaking for me.....
Look, I know no one is perfect but seeing as how this is online dating, u want to be as descriptive as possible so if my book long profile turns u off then, as this site is titled, there's "plenty of fish" out there waiting to be baited and ur not the one for me..........
More importantly, I'M NOT AN AVID TEXTER as I believe in communication the old fashioned way...actually talking on the phone :) If u don't like phone conversation then keep it moving. Wow! Who knew people still did that...:)
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