You can't know if you're interested in someone until you get to know them, and you can't really get to know a person until you've met them face-to-face. That said, I'm not going to tell all about myself before I've even met you. Even if I did, I couldn't prove that what I said was true, and, more to the point, I feel like doing so creates a limited image of who I actually am. I am not my interests, I am not my job, I am not the clothes I wear, I am not the things I have. I'm not even the person I was 10 minutes ago. I am a human being: I grow, I change, I feel emotions, I eat, I drink, I sleep, I have dreams, I have desires, I am alive.
So how do you know if I'm even worth the trouble?
You don't, but there's only one way to find out. Are you brave enough to face the unknown?
It's important for you girls to know that I am actually looking to meet someone, eventually,so I typically avoid talking to girls that live over an hour away, it doesn't mean I don't want to get to know you, it just means I don't have the funds to actually drive any farther than an hour away on a regular basis, and I don't want to lead anyone on, or waste your time. ) I would like to add that I'm really just looking for someone to spend my free time with. I'm pretty impulsive, and I'm usually down to try anything at least once, so what we do just depends on however we feel.
There is no perfect first date, like anything else in life there are certain variables that change from person to person. That said, I'd be most comfortable out at a bowling alley or pool hall. I think the key to a successful first date is having fun and getting to know each other, how and where that happens doesn't truly matter.