I'm a 42 year old Italian girl. I'm an Aquarius and pretty true to my sign. I'm very opened minded and have a live and let live kind of attitude. I've had the 18 year marriage (which ended 5 years ago), 3 older kids, whom I adore and ground me, the house, white picket fence. The American dream as they call it. Also, a career that I am very passionate about.(I'm one of the lucky ones that still gets excited to go to work everyday). So.... What am I looking for on this 2nd stage of my life? Well, I'm looking for a man I can feel a connection with. Someone who is strong, confident(a little**** is ok:), attractive, driven, great sence of humor. Comfortable in his own skin. Emotionally available . Open minded and adventurous (inside and outside the bedroom). More often then not I am attracted to a mans mind. I like to be mentally and physically stimulated. (you won't hear me utter those words"I'm not in the mood" :) life is sweet and I'm looking for someone who wants to enjoy it with me. Who is open to growth for something more if indeed a connection is felt. Have you ever had one of those moments when you are with someone you totally click with, kicking back on a patch of grass on a sunny day. Throwing back a few beers laughing the day away. Time seems to stand still and all is well in your world? For me those are the moments that make the world go round. Something as simple as that. So.. If any of this interests you.. Contact me .