For now im looking for some friends. mine are all new parents and ill be needing movie/driving range/ coastal exploration fun people. at least one good person. its a foundation for possibilities. long distance wont work unless driving is ok by you. i want someone to laugh with. be that person that gets me and i them.
FYI my hair is a bit darker than the pics. I recently changed it and I change it fairly often.
i guess a clean summery of me would be- love soul music, hip hop and some alt rock. i am an aspiring writer but until great success arrives, I am an interior decorater. for fun i love to hit the driving range, mini golf, play pool, play darts a little,comedy clubs, kayaking, watching a ufc fight, museums, go to the movies etc. pretty common. with a trusted partner i like exploring the coast, hiking and spreading my wings a bit. if you ask me what makes me unique? since we are all unique unto eachother, i'll let you decide. i do have a relentless sense of humor and tho I am current on politics and events (for stress sake) i try to keep it light. sometimes it's tuff, but indepth conversations I can do.
sometimes i think an activity to kick things off is good since it gives you both something in common to talk about., (or talk trash lol). but if the mood is set for romance, a cool jazz club or something along those lines can be intoxicating. I think i'll keep this short now. a woman's mistique is in her ability to continue to intrigue.
* note- no matter who you are, there is no scenario in which I will or would have casual sex. Also I can't stand when men try to put their hands all over me when we are getting to know eachother. I may uncomfortably smile but I won't go along and I am unlikely to contact you again... Ever. I'm seeking class and respect. If your mother didn't raise you right, I refuse to pay those consequences.
-do NOt contact me if you are under 32 or over 44. Don't contact me if you don't have a picture or if you are so sad that you had to post pictures that aren't you. Try to keep your shirt on if you have self respect and don't mention repeatedly how important the gym is to you and how important it is in a mate. It screams shallow and you close off doors of great possibility. I have been inspired in the past to join the gym with a boyfriend and together it was fun.I'm of average curvy maralyn Monroe shape. I love my body and the woman I've become Love yourself and real love will find you. Also *** emotionally stable is a must. I have met 2 people from here now and blowing up my phone with 100 texts a day is overwhelming and in contrast only returning texts or calls after a day or 3 is a bit too little. I want emotionally available not emotionally overloaded. I'll take an order of just right please :)