WHATEVER YOU WANNA KNOW FEEL FREE TO ASK ME. I'M NOT GONNA PUT A SUMMARY OF MYSELF ON HERE ANYMORE BECAUSE HALF OF YOU WON'T READ IT & MOST WON'T UNDERSTAND IT OR MIGHT TAKE OFFENSE TO IT. SO ASK ME JUST ABOUT ANYTHING I HAVE NO PROBLEM AND WON'T GET OFFENDED BECAUSE I'M LAID BACK & HAVE THICK SKIN. JUST BE UPFRONT & REAL BECAUSE I CAN'T STAND & REFUSE TO DEAL WITH FAKE PEOPLE. AND PLEASE DON'T OFFER ME ANY CHANCE TO MAKE MONEY I'M GOOD.....NOT GONNA WASTE MY TIME WITH ANY GET RICH QUICK MONEY SCHEMES SO SAVE THE B.S. FOR SOMEBODY ELSE. HERE'S A INTERESTING ARTICLE I CAME ACROSS CHECK IT OUT, IT MIGHT BE HELPFUL.
The Good of Online Dating
Well as already stated it is extremely convenient. You eliminate all the extra time and money that you may have to spend otherwise in attempting to put yourself in a position to be noticed and found by a potential mate. I’m not saying there aren’t free non-online ways to go about this, but for most it does cut some extra cost. Not to mention that these sites do a lot of screening for you. It filters out the people you don’t really want to have to entertain and if one slips through the cracks it is a much easier rejection process. The idea that these people could be crazy; well these are the same people you may meet at your job, school, church, club, etc. A lot of people go online in today’s world; it isn’t just a place for nut jobs and weirdo’s.
The Bad of Online Dating
If you are a man, there isn’t much bad I can point to from online dating. Aside from the occasional woman who may give some false representation of her actual looks and qualities, there isn’t much else to complain about. If you are a woman, online dating can easily turn into a nightmare if you come in with the wrong expectation. Listen clearly; the men on these sites are no different from the men you meet anywhere else. With that said, the majority may only want to get that ass. Seriously, just because it is a respected dating site does not mean there aren’t men that are simply there to find action. Some may be there genuinely, but if after a date or two he realizes you aren’t the one, well then getting that ass becomes his consolation prize. So understand that no matter how much screening and filtering the site does for you, you as a woman still needs to have your own process of determining how serious this guy is and if you both are on the same page with the relationship. Other than that, women also have watch out for the false representation, but I don’t think that issue happens as much as it used to…I think.
Overall I think online dating is a great option. It really helps make the process easier but you still must take personal responsibility on evaluating your potential partner. You can find many success stories and these couples can attest to how well online dating worked for them. There are many good sites to choose from so do your research and go with what works for you. I don’t think you should lock yourself in your house and put all your hope on just this one option. Yet, I definitely believe it should be included in your list of options when trying to find a partner. Don’t limit yourself when it comes to finding love because you never know how it will come and with who it will be with.
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