Hello there, my name is jabar. I'm currently living in Philadelphia PA, not sure I like the east coast any more. I think the west coast grew on me. What I like in a women is brains and beauty, I like them to be strong but a real softy. I have a fetish for a certain thing on a women but that's really not that important. I think friends are really a plus in making a relationship last so I don't mind build that from the ground up. Maybe the right one will cause me to stay in Philly, or maybe they wouldn't mind relocating. I love a women who motivates me to do more and be more, when you have a women like that its hard to go wrong. I do know people like what they like so I'm definitely trying to be what a women can love weather that be mentally or physically.
Some of the things I like to do is outdoor fun things like gocart riding, ATV riding shooting at the gun range and being out sight seeing. I also like sitting at home listening to music, I like rap, R&B, reggae, I little rock and a little pop. I really love singing, its just something I do on the regular.
I don't like women that are way to "ratchet" there's a difference in getting your point across and just being loud and rude. You treat people they way you would like to be treated. It not that I don't like, but I'm not attracted to BBW'S or whatever you may call them. Its not that I don't like them, its that I'm just not attracted to them. I don't like women who don't speak there mind, at the same time if I tell you the truth its not to hurt you, its for you to know. Anything els, seek and you shall find.