I am a very open and honest person who doesnt believe in secrets and living lies. I'm the type that says what I mean and means what I say. I dont believe in wasting other's time by witholding things because all truth reveals itself in time. I believe in laying it all on the table and being up front about things so that if theres something about me a person cant live with or accept, they are free to drive on and so am I without having invested too much time and having to suffer the hurt and disappointment of finding things out later on down the line. I'm full-figured, fair skinned with a rosy complexion, have long straight auburn hair that is well past my waist, & have light brown eyes. I'm a mom to 2 children, who are my world, even though they dont live fulltime with me. My daughter is 6yrs old & my son is 4yrs old. They come stay with me 2nd & 4th weekends. I'm an honest, genuine, and down to earth person who LOVES all kinds of music, with Country being my favorite! I LOVE to sing & enjoy going to karaoke on weekends. I find much beauty in nature and the outdoors. I LOVE THE WATER and enjoy most all activities relative to it.
A little more about me & what I'm looking for...
I'm looking for someone who is ok with me having children, who will not see, treat, or refer to them as "baggage"...Someone who will be accepting of them & hopefully as his love grows for me, his love for them will grow along with it.
NO ONE is perfect & in this day & age it is easier in the minds of many folks out there to walk away to greener pastures when times get tough in their relationships instead of persevering through the rough times, and for that reason, relationships just dont stand the test of time & lack the strength to withstand the storm that is life. I believe its all about having the right mindset & if you go into it with an attitude that you're just going to ride the ride as far as it can go, & "play the game" so to speak, then a close, intimate relationship will never fully evolve & if anything does evolve, it certainly wont be able to withstand the trials of everyday life for long, anyway...I'm looking for a partner who feels like I do & is "in it to win it" & believes like I do, that you hang in there with & for each other...ESPECIALLY when the times get tough...because that is what TRULY loving someone is all about!
I'm a very simple, humble person. I've learned to be happy and grateful for what I have. I'm not rich, but do the best I can. I make my own way and am not on here looking for a gravy train or to be rescued. I expect the same in my mate, someone who is self sufficient and not looking to move in with me, for me to support them financially, or chauffeur them around. I do good to support myself and my family and expect no less of who I'm with. I'm looking for someone who will love and accept me just as I am. I'm looking for an honest, genuine, down to Earth person who says what they mean and means what they say that can treat me like a lady...with respect. I want someone who's willing to go out and spend quality time together, having fun making new memories. I'm looking for a serious, monogamous relationship founded upon faithfulness and honesty, someone who will respect and take me seriously, so don't bother contacting me if you are out there looking for a 'lil fun on the side' & have your cake and eat it too, players need not apply.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm open to just about anything really...pretty easy to please...just really looking for opportunities to meet & get to know people & hopefully find someone that I share a strong connection with...any dating opportunity that allows good & effective communication to occur is best in my book if BOTH of are looking for the same thing: an opportunity to connect...Examples would be a picnic, a quiet evening walk through the woods, by a creek, or at the lake...a peaceful & serene environment...enjoying coffee together or a nice meal somewhere where it isn't so busy or racy is good too!