There are a few things I am black and white about.. respect, integrity, honesty.. the rest is more flexible.. Plans for a quick lunch can turn into a trip to the city, or a planned adventure can change to a quiet evening.. spontaneity.. love it :)
I can be a great listener, and give good advice to others when it comes to dating & relationships.. but tend to over think things when it comes to me. There are times I don't see what's right before me.. which is crazy because I pride myself on how aware I am of what's going on around me and being able to read people.
My goals? to stay happy and successful in life. I tend to stay positive and to find the good in situations. Even the hardest situations teach me something.
As for honesty about my marital status.. yes, I am still married. I left in 98 and have never looked back. There should be a default out there.. after 7 years apart the certificate disintegrates :)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First date would probably be coffee or a meal so talking could happen.. from there, who knows.. a walk.. a drive..