Yes I will eventually be looking for a long term relationship but for goodness sakes..... 1 step at a time!! ;-) These things do take time..!!!
Like many people I find this a hard thing to do so I will just tell you some personal thoughts and let you decide. I mean.....anyone can say "I'm a good person" but...honestly....how do you know...? So....I will just tell you my thoughts.
I believe in the closeness in 2 people.
I believe that 2 people should be so in love that all you can think of is them.
I believe Valentine's day is not just on February 14th, but should be expressed every day....I will strive to love my partner as much every day and not just show an "extra effort" on only 1 day a year.
I believe there is good in many people, and I believe that sometimes what they do - they believe is for the greater good
But I also believe sometimes those people should just leave things alone and let fate take its course.
Most of all, if I tell you that I believe in you, then I really do.
With that being said I do believe you need your own time with your friends too.
I enjoy helping with home reno's...travelling...and many things really. I bet I even like some things I haven't even tried yet..LOL I'm not a cold hard person but very much a hand holder and huger. I think that the person that I connect with should not be embarrassed to hold hands or accept a kiss in public.. I don't mean... "get a room" stuff but simple gestures....
What melts me most of all is to get a wink from across the room from my partner.....just to know he cares, or send me a text message in the middle of the night because he just can't wait until morning...hiding a I Love you note in your lunch!!
One last thing. I hear people say "you have to work hard to maintain a relationship".....actually, I look at it a different way. It's not the relationship that is hard work but it's life's little interference that you have to deal with. That's the problem..... The relationship or love for your partner should be the easy part...One thing I might add is that I do not share my man, so if your interested in having other woman hanging around, please don't form a relationship with me. I am a one mans woman and I expect the same in return. Let's meet and have fun and see where things may go...
What are we waiting for we could be missing the perfect catch....
Well I like to have an exciting one something that you have fun doing, something you interact with each other. I know most people just like to go and do a coffee or a drink thing....Take it up a step and plan the exciting evening out and have fun and you will see if you have a good time instead of sitting and letting the nerves get the best of you!!