Yes I will eventually be looking for a long term relationship but for goodness sakes..... 1 step at a time!! ;-) These things do take time..!!!
Like many people I find this a hard thing to do so I will just tell you some personal thoughts and let you decide. I mean.....anyone can say "I'm a good person" but...honestly....how do you know...? So....I will just tell you my thoughts.
I'm an "out of the box" sort of person...not so far out of the box that I can't see it though..LOL.
I believe in the closeness in 2 people.
I believe that 2 people should be so in love that all you can think of is them.
I believe Valentine's day is not just on February 14th, but should be expressed every day....I will strive to love my partner as much every day and not just show an "extra effort" on only 1 day a year.
I believe there is good in many people, and I believe that sometimes what they do - they believe is for the greater good
But I also believe sometimes those people should just leave things alone and let fate take its course.
Most of all, if I tell you that I believe in you, then I really do.
In the shopping mall the other day and there was a bunch of younger kids whizzing past this older couple They bumped into the older couple and took off. When someone asked them if they were ok the man winked and said they were fine. He said we were young once too but now they had more important things in life. Immediately, he turned to his wife and kissed her on the cheek, held her hand and walked away. Now THAT is what I'm looking for.... That commitment of future love.... ( I don't mean tomorrow or anything.....)
I enjoy helping with home reno's...travelling...and many things really. I bet I even like some things I haven't even tried yet..LOL I'm not a cold hard person but very much a hand holder and huger. I think that the person that I connect with should not be embarrassed to hold hands or accept a kiss in public.. I don't mean... "get a room" stuff but simple gestures....
What melts me most of all is to get a wink from across the room from my partner.....just to know he cares, or send me a text message in the middle of the night because he just can't wait until morning...hiding a I Love you note in your lunch!!
One last thing. I hear people say "you have to work hard to maintain a relationship".....actually, I look at it a different way. It's not the relationship that is hard work but it's life's little interference that you have to deal with. That's the problem..... The relationship or love for your partner should be the easy part...One thing I might add is that I do not share my man, so if your interested in having other woman hanging around, please don't form a relationship with me. I am a one mans woman and I expect the same in return. Let's meet and have fun and see where things may go...
Well I like to have an exciting one something that you have fun doing, something you interact with each other. I know most people just like to go and do a coffee or a drink thing....Take it up a step and plan the exciting evening out and have fun and you will see if you have a good time instead of sitting and letting the nerves get the best of you!!
To send a message to needssomethatcares you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 45 and 58.
Live in Canada
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married