Updates****** so i am currently renovating a house in Salisbury so i live there but still work in ballentyne. Crazy driving but its a good time to unwind on the drive. Plus its fun doing a house. I coach youth soccer for u14 and u17 and probably looking to get more involved in that and 90% sure i will go back to school in probably go back in the fall. So here it goes, I am on here to see what . I am 30 now and doing well; i'm sarcastic, witty, smart, blunt, opinionated but open minded, like to diy, laid back but takes serious matters seriously you're of person. I am looking for something serious but it needs to start out right. I don't like the whole date just to date so if you are not looking for a committed relationship down the road, stop. I don't want hookups and i don't want a club girl, been there and done that and its not what i want. I am in a good place in life, good job, good friends, and no drama and managable stress but its almost always better having a partner to enjoy things with. I am witty, sarcastic, loves to laugh and make people laugh, love to break up the awkward moments with something ridiculous, i know when to be serious and when to be a big kid, i tend to be that person people vent on, i enjoy good compelling conversations and enjoy people who use common sense and are smart but that doesn't mean just because you have a degree that makes you "smart", i have always been the cook in the relationship, and there are times i just want to something spontaneous and i'll go do it. I always open doors, even for strangers, like to hold hands in public if the moment arises, enjoy good lazy days and nights doing nothing more than watching tv on the couch but going out for dinner and drinks always had an open spot on the calendar, i have traditional values when it comes to love and how it should be treated, i find actions speak just as loud as words, i dont mind if a woman wants to pay for the date or something but just can't be the first date or few, and don't take it personal if one night i don't want to do something, i don't take it personal if you need a night to yourself we all need some space but yes i may wonder if i don't hear from you for most of the week. I hope there are women out there that can respect that and want that. As for what i am looking for, who knows! Not that i don't have my types i like but there is so much out there and i am not going to narrow it down to types for me. Honest and trust and loyalty are all very highly rated in my book and those must be there for anything to progress. If I message you it's because you interested me, if I favorite you is because it's late at night and I don't want to be creepy and message you at some weird hour of the night so I'll do it later.
So random things about me!
-My DVR has lots of "the chew" on it and Gordan Ramsay shows on it because I love to cook. I enjoy cooking nice meals and going out for nice dinners. Ive recently been watching Elevation church episodes on tv and its been uplifting for me.
-I play soccer, golf, started to take fencing lessons and really would try almost anything sport related. I am a soccer fanatic and love watching soccer when I can and try to go see matches with Manchester United come to the states. I do play soccer on an adult rec league and try and pick up too when i can.
-I am a online deal fiend! I love groupon, living social, dealery because it not only saves money but takes me to i won't try normally. Ive learned of some new good restaurants and massage places around here and sometimes just random things to buy and try
-I like to take small getaways. Groupon and living social really help this out bc they always have the getaway things but i love getaways to the beach, mountains, big citiethere jut to get out and go somewhere differeexperience different enviornments, new places to visits or whatever
- Music is vital to my life, i listen to almost anything but music keeps me sane in the membrane! Stumbleine
, Imogen Heap, Breaking Benjamin, Calvin Harris, Adele, I am Foxes, and lots of remix stuff!
Well i am about meeting and learning and hopefully develop a relationship with someone who is awesome and special and i hope to find it in Charlotte or somewhere! I am open to LD relationships as long as the whole honesty and trust thing was there.
I don't really care what we do for a first date as long as its a place we can talk and get to know each other. Noisy bars, clubs and movies probably not my idea of a good first date. I do like munching on something small over some wine, beers or drinks of any sort, a walk around a park or some intersting part of town, watching little kids play soccer at my local park. Like i said i don't really care even if we're eating burgers at 5 guys burgers its a place for us to talk and get to know each other, mission accomplished!