Let's be honest, this app makes Charlotte seem like it has so little to offer in terms of the dating pool. I like unique people who are their own self. And not a disrespectful or crap attitude person, being yourself means you can take care of yourself both financially, mentally and emotionally. That you understand what it means to act your age and even conduct yourself as am adult. That being independent doesn't mean being a loner or squeezing people in, but that you have enough confidence in yourself that you don't need others approval or others empathy, sympathy or compassion to validate yourself, that you can live your life happy knowing you're being who you are, how you to, and keeping to whatever you believe. Also where are actual Christians? I'm no where near the shining example but I grew up on the church and have a set moral and spiritual standard and wants someone who understands that and can help keep that standard. Oh and if you say you're a conversationalist, don't struggle when asked what you like, or who you are or what you believe. Just looking for someone that attracts me mentally emotionally and physically and in that order too.