Just got back from an amazing trip to Africa (and the Far East; Japan, Thailand, Malaysia, and Singapore, the previous year) and like on most trips, meet the most amazing people from around the world, and get a clearer perspective on life (and realize how unfocused NYC can be when it comes to relationships), love, and happiness so decided would delete everything i wrote on here and try keep it really simple and try find that, loving, sweet , smart and educated person out there also looking for that ultimate friendship/relationship/companion.
Created a life where time is my own and get to enjoy life and travel quite often and have new and real experiences without having to sell my soul to anything.
I have been to 10 countries the last year or so.
I'm not sure what to write about myself. If i focus on being sweet, giving and nice, it sounds contrived and little like a pushover ) If I focus on intellectual pursuits, ideas and etc, i might sound like a geek, cold or a bore ) So you see the dilemma!? Here is an attempt )
Love ideas, people, truth and justice, and my mind thrives on deep conversations and enjoy heated discussions (without making it personal: debates (backed by information and facts ) that lead to mental highs !
Free spirited, independent, deep, and at the same time, can find commonality and connect with most people.
Don't define myself by possessions and etc.
My philosophy in life is all we need is food, shelter, health, good friends and family and love, and the rest is all extra!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meeting up for a laid back environment for a bite or drink and just getting to know one another for who we really are while both of us are present, have our guards down, and enjoy each others company, even though we might not feel we are a potential match (if that is the case, you never know we could be friends, or even know a friend for each other) . On the second date, once we know there is more, that is another story!!