Now, the important info I just want to get out in the open up front. I dont wish to be judged as this was 20 yrs ago and I live with the regret everyday of my life. I was very young and dated a man that gave me herpies. He didnt know he had it. So it has forever changed my life. It is controlled by meds. I guess it will take a special kind of man that will be able to accept this about me. I did go on to have a 2nd marriage and had my 12 yr old and then my 9 yr old, so I am not living as a "nun". Yes, with the right man I can have sex if your wondering. I again went on and had 2 children since then. This is why I dont want someone that only wants one thing. I would rather risk telling this upfront instead of getting to know someone I like, then tell them and they flee like I have the plague. So, if knowing this you still want to get to know me as a person that has feelings just like you do then send me a message. If I still have your attention you can read more about me.
I am a single mother of 3 boys ages 24,12,9. I love my children and family very much and they mean the world to me. I also love Jesus with all my heart and soul. He is the reason I am who I am today.
I have my own business at home making bath and body products and sell online at a pretty good volume so it keeps me busy but allows me to be home with my 2 younger children still living at home as well as time just for myself.
I love to sing. I have recorded locally my own music just for my family but music is a gift that runs thru my entire family. I also write songs as well as poetry.
Please if all you are wanting is to get together for a "fling" do not contact me. That is not what I want. I am not against dating a man that isnt a christian, but I expect you to have integrity and morals. I want a man that can respect me in all areas of my life. I am a Messianic Gentile who tries to observe Torah. I would like a man to love me for me and not the "outside package". I am so much more than that. I know this is forward but this is brutal honesty. The right man will appreciate and respect that about me.
A family oriented man that will accept my children as I can no longer have any more children of my own. I also would be willing to date a man with children of his own.
Ideally my age range for a man I would prefer to be between the ages of 38-48.
I would prefer a strong christian man who loves Jesus with all his heart but I am willing to be open minded but with the understanding that my beliefs are respected and not put down.
I would prefer a man that is independent as well as someone that is a good communicator in regards to his feelings as well as his past etc...I also need a man that will be sensitive and compassionate to my feelings and past as well.
I am not quite ready to start a serious relationship, but just take things one step at a time. Only time will tell, and if it is the right person I will know. Again I am not wanting a "short term fling."
I would prefer a man that is into real life and NOT into video games such as World of Warcraft, Dungeons & Dragons etc...as their full time job.
meeting up for a casual lunch date or coffee so that we have a chance to get to know each other. After that if things progress I like dinners, movies and I love to dance.