I'm a single woman looking to meet some good men. If I end up meeting an awesome man that sweeps me off of my feet great if not then It will be more friends gained from this site. I love to joke around, so don't get offended if I say something in a joking manner, It's only a joke, not a death sentence. I love to meet new people. I love to go out and have a good time dancing with friends, I listen to country, rap, hip hop, alternative rock, NO head banger here. Not looking for a booty buddy!!!! so if that's all you want keep truckin.I don't like clutter or filth. Heads up I am no size 0, I'm what I would call thick and sexy. Don't most men like thick cheese burgers anyway? lol With that being said ,I changed my eating habits,4 years ago. strictly healthy foods, low carb I like to workout. I power walk an hour a day 5 days a week, tone up with the weight machines 4 days a week, and work on abs 3 days a week..I may be ready for a bikini contest this summer....Ummmm YEAHhhhh....NOOOO !!! But I have been melting down and toning up week by week ! Proud of myself! I may not have a perfect body but let's face it after having 6 kids who would?!!! But I do have a great attitude! I like looking good but I mostly workout because I am the last parent left and I want to be around to watch my babies grow up.I am def no couch potato, I'd rather do something productive than sit around and waste a day. As far as the shallow men go,Yall can't say much.about womens bodies..none of yall have ever been pregnant but your bodies look as if you have. Aren't we past the shallowness by this age? I mean think about it, If you got in an accident and you couldn't hit the weights and run 10 miles a day, and you gained weight and got very out of shape would u think it would be right for women to judge you soley by your body? I think it's good to workout and be healthy but I don't mind extra weight on a man, That doesn't bother me at all. I prefer big men. My husband had always worked out and body builded until he had a blockage in his heart and had a stent put in, he was put on so many medicines for diabetes heart etc etc etc until it blew him up to 310 lbs,for a couple of years. until he was taken off of some of them then he had lost back down. My kids are (B29, G27, B23, G21, B15, B7, all by the same daddy, We were married almost 25 yrs together 26 1/2 yrs. So I never thought I would be thrown into the single life. My plans were to be married til we were very old. He passed away 6 yrs ago in a car accident.My oldest son was with him and thankfully survived. He was a good man, I lost my momma suddenly in 2001, her heart just stopped, my granddaughter in 2008 and my sister recently last September. So I know first hand that saying is so very true...You really don't know what you had until it's gone!!! So enjoy your loved ones while you still can! The whole point is we all want to find someone to share our lives with right! OK kids class dismissed lol OK so let's see what's out there!