Due to many friendships changing in adulthood, jobs, kids, etc., I find myself seeking to establish new connections. I am interviewing for those into similar activities. I'd like to meet with established group of friends, and their own hobbies and interests. In my friend group, group activities are now one of the harder settings to pull off. It's turning into 1-2 people, and that makes it hard to watch a show or go dancing. Must gain 1-3 more avid goers. Good company is priceless, and worth choosing selectively. I seriously don't care to be involved in negative situations.
I appreciate humor, or terrible observations. Whatever is more fun. Openly looking for established groups (males and females), that are nerdy cool cats, that want to expand their social circle. I'm rarely without good company, but we're always looking for more dancing folks, game nights, exercise (bike, walk, jog), and food excursions (which usually means anime night). If you are a cosplayer and/or avid anime watcher, we'd like to do this as a group.
I try to live by being conscious of my decisions. I'm practicing patience and time management. It never seems there's room for all the things to do want or need, and I want to maximize my potential. Not saying a few good rejuvenating days aren't on the to do list. I enjoy open minded people and those that are motivated. I don't want to discuss politics or religion, there are so many things happening to observe and discuss, it seems like a waste of time. My opinion is: I love gays, I don't think you have to attend church, I do not watch regular TV, or go for beer/wings/coffee.
There are many times when people are on their phone instead of being present. I love it when someone can actually have a real conversation. It's becoming a lost art. I use and understand technology, but it's not one of my top ten necessary items.
I'm a total goof, but clean up well. Everyone holds a different opinion of me. I'm always changing my style. I'm not trying to do this on purpose. My thoughts are totally random, there can't be a routine in appearance. My photos will be outdated quickly.
If you are interested in talking to me then please make a message that is worth reading. Real conversation is important to me. I'm sure if you only like me from the pictures we will both be disappointed. I will not waste my time on empty flirting. Also not replying to: psychological evaluations, sexed up comments, copy n paste, guilt trips, desperation, anyone that doesn't get how to treat their message like a normal ice breaker. How would you talk to someone in real life? Because this is the same thing. Would you speak so strangely to others in person?
I'm looking for friendship, not fishing for compliments. I already know I'm a nerd, and attractive to other people. It's pointed out by all the people in my real life all the time. I would gladly take the time, to type on my iPhone, and send a real message (to women or men) that show they are able to process what I said.
If you send an insulting message, especially if I haven't responded to a previous one, it is factual proof you are unstable and not worth my time to get to know. Don't be foolish. Nobody likes that type of behavior. See a therapist, don't antagonize strangers with your ignorance.
I always cross my fingers that my buddies will get along with each other. I run into people I know just about everywhere I go. It really bothers me going out one on one anymore, because somebody disliked the other person. Grow up! I want to go on dates and incorporate people, their friends and mine, to have fun times together.
I stay with not expensive (fun is free!) places to have conversation (movies and concerts are a little noisy for just talking). Taking a lil puppy for a walk at the park. Getting a meal is a little expensive, but if it's too cold out for a walk around town then maybe talk grab some snacks.
I hardly drink and I kind of hate major league sports. I would like to share similar interests, because you aren't going to be hanging out with me if you don't. I've seen many people try to get along with others that leave them feeling lonely and bored. That leads to mischief and lies.