I am 45 yrs old. I have reddish dark blonde hair. I have 1 grown child not living at home, and 14 yr old twins and a 3 yr old grand child living at home. I am divorced. I am not skinny and never have been but I am trying to live a healthier life and have lost 50 lbs in the last couple years and still have more to go to reach my goal. I like camping, swimming, going to garage sales, horseback riding, taking my children to the park, the zoo, working in my flower garden, walking on the beach early in the morning or just staying home and watching a movie. I like to drive and love taking road trips in the summer to see those little out of the way tourist attractions. I love old cars and enjoy going to car shows. I believe honesty and trust are the most important things in any relationship. I would like to find a man that can hold an intelligent conversation, is non-religious, doesn't do drugs and yes that includes smoking pot, doesn't drink like a fish, has respect for himself and others, has a job, a car, a place to live, has a good relationship with his family, has friends, likes to get out of the house and do family stuff, would be great if you have kids also but if not thats ok too. I am just looking for a normal person, no extremist. I want to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I want to look forward to retirement someday and have that someone special to spend time with. I don't care if it is sitting on the front porch in rocking chairs watching the grand kids play or traveling across the country in a RV. I have a job, a car, a house. I can think for myself. I don't do drugs, I may have a drink twice a year, I can hold a decent conversation, I have common sense most of the time lol. I believe in starting as friends first and I don't believe in casual sex. Other than that I don't know what else to say. I am just looking for a good honest person to be part of our lives. I live in Oklahoma but spend most of the summer and school vacations in Garden Grove / Stanton, Calif.
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A JOB OR AN INCOME AND A CAR THAT RUNS PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE.