Talking about my hobbies, goals, aspirations and music interests really doesn't make that much of a difference on here. I find that it's all about what the person looks like and seeing if you share some of the same interests... have a family...etc. and then sending me a message based on that. I suppose once in awhile someone will read my profile and ask why there's not much there. I'd rather just find out about someone in person and have you do the same. I will say that I have my 10 and 12 year old boys half of the time... week on/week off. I am a very open person... I would just prefer for someone to find out more about me in person. :))
ADDENDUM: IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO JUST HOOK UP BUT FEEL THE NEED TO LIE AND SAY THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEN PLEASE DON'T BOTHER MESSAGING ME. IT'S A WASTE OF MY VALUABLE TIME INVESTING IN SOMEONE WHO ISN'T ON THE SAME PAGE.