Employed, responsible, can tie my own shoes, change a tire, replace the power source in a computer, change the oil in a '66 Ford, replace a faucet, hit a high draw, stop a penalty kick, curse in Spanish, hold my own against a 9 year old playing Halo, smile in spite of it, do a cartwheel, run 4 miles (all at once), belch my full name, sing the entire 2nd movement to Beethoven's 9th Symphony, and figure out the Jumble words faster than most. Basically, the entire package.
And as far as ambition goes, I can be tremendously ambitious if it's something worth being tremendously ambitious about. I do not run willy-nilly, full-ambitious after anything simply to be willy-nilly, full-ambitious. That seems indiscriminate and dumb.
What do you got?
Kind of hard to say. Some women think it's cool when the first date is a helicopter jaunt over the Grand Canyon followed by river rafting down the Colorado followed by shooting big game animals and roasting them over a fire while someone plays classical guitar and gives them a massage...at the same time. Other people think a nice lunch or dinner would suffice. I'm open to either...but we'd need to find someone who plays guitar. I play piano and we sure as hell aren't hauling that in a helicopter or a raft into the Grand Canyon.