Now that I have your attention..... I am puzzled as to why pof is matching me with ladies in Wisconsin, lower Michigan, central Illinois, and the Indy metro area.
A small bit about me: I am an intj who worked his twenties and early thirties away at a go nowhere job [that didn't let me have much of a life (no, I wasn't in jail, just sold my soul, to a company store)], and am now starting over. Recently re-enrolled full time in college (Didn't finish in the late 90's, one of my few regrets). There are no kids/stalking ex 's in my life, no ink either (am undecided as what to get). I like animals (wither they reside at the zoo, the outdoors or on a lap). I am spiritual, nonreligious [there wasn't a choice for it :( ] person.
I play trombone in two community bands, not really into pop music, as it does nothing for me [I couldn't pick out lady gaga in a line up if my life depended on it. lol], Same with sports [never could get into them, but I know enough to follow what is happening]. I am fascinated by mechanical things [I can change a tire long before AAA shows up]. Drama free (it belongs in theater and soaps, and look at what happened to soaps. lol), and same with drugs, and diseases. Avid reader (more like devourer) of 4-5 books a month (lately they've been adventure/mystery, history of technology and fiction). Some what frequent attender of movies [even though my wallet cries for doing so. :'-(]. I enjoy action/adventure (after all, I am a guy), mysteries, comedies, not much into horror flicks, but I will watch a chick flick, [provided we can cuddle the whole time ;-)]. I don't hunt, but do target shoot on occasion.
I like tattoo's (they're like art you wear), piercings, multiple hair colors (especially when the light hits them and you can see all the subtle, hidden shades). I prefer curves (and a muffin top) over a stick figure. Smarts trump over beauty to me, The person on the inside is the most important feature. Despite society telling me blondes are more fun, I prefer redheads and brunettes. Cheating and games conflict with my moral code, unless it's Monopoly, then all bets are off ;-).
Should I have kept your interest throughout my rambling, please feel free to drop a line [if you make the first move that's fine, my ego doesn't mind]. If I failed to then, I wish to thank you for taking the time to check out my profile, and wish you the best of luck in your quest.
My preferred first face to face meeting would be over lunch or a snack. I am not opposed to dinner or a tavern, as long as it's a quiet enough place to converse without yelling. I shall save the romantic ideas for a later time. ;-)
To send a message to jkarl1977 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 30 and 45.
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married