Howdy, first off I attended church for 30 years and no longer do so. I do have some old fashioned morals still left, but I am tired of living in a shell of perfection. I am trying to find that woman that can bring fun and adventure into my life. I am a big sports junkie and often spend my weekends watching sports. I just need a nudge from the right gal to leave all that behind. I love bbqs and my favorite thing to cook is a Flat Iron Steak from Reasor's. I eat one every weekend. So I do hate to brag because it does run off half of the women on this site but I really do make 81K a year. I do consider myself to be high maintenance. I do not wear clothes from Walmart EVER. You might say I prefer Hurley or American Eagle clothing. I do drink Starbucks and NOT Folgers. I do have Direct tv and internet at my house. I do have a 55 inch Ultra HD TV that I enjoy. I have a Samsung 40 inch in the bedroom. I recently purchased a 2016 Jeep Wrangler because I wanted one. My finance advisor tells me I could retire at 60 years old if I wanted. hmmmm.....Retire.....I have two daughters that have grown up and moved out on their own. I have two grandsons. My nephew from my wife's side of the family moved in with me and I am trying to get him started in life. Yes, I am very empathetic and I do care about my relatives and others struggling in life. Sometimes they just need a little nudge and not forced outside and left to die like some parents seem to do these days. I am a 70% disabled and retired Air Force Technical Sergeant with 26 years of service. I am currently working on my federal retirement. So yes my future looks bright. I would like to hear from another lady that also has a bright future and some cool ideas for retirement. Lets merge and have double the fun.