So, here we go . . .
I've got a great job
I own a home
I own a reliable car
I am not looking for a one-nighter
I desire a friendship first, if that works then maybe more
Does that calm your fears yet? I do have one major roadblock to a relationship, my career. I am an over-the-road driver, so I am home 4-5 days per month. If you are independently wealthy and want to go on long trips, I guess I would be a good catch. If you are not, then I would really like to meet you if you are independent and very busy with your own life, too. If you want a relationship with a man but don't need him around too much, I am your guy.
My two favorite things are spending time with my friends/family and going to live music shows (hard and loud, or cool and mellow - I love them all).
Times with my family and friends are my most cherished commodity. I would rather spend time creating memories with them than any other activity. They are outgoing, kind, accepting, and best of all . . . funny! The more laughs together, the better. Our best times are sitting around telling stories. It would be great to share that time with the right lady.
A little about her:
If she appreciates being treated like a lady with dignity and respect, then she'll treasure time with me. If she knows how to share appropriate affections and she cares for others, I would treat her like the queen she is. If I am doing what I am supposed to, she will feel like she is the only woman in the world for me. She will know that I think she is beautiful, intelligent, sexy and desirable because I will tell her all the time - and mean it! She won't have to guess at how I feel about her. She will have similiar values as I have. She should believe in a partnership that makes us better together than on our own.
If what i said fits into your idea of a decent guy and you feel you fit into my "about hers", then please let me know what you would like to do about it.
My first choice would be meeting early for beverages where we could relax and flirt and have some laughs. After we figured out if we wanted to go further, it would be great to see some live music at a club or an open venue (no restricting assigned seats). A little dancing, a little holding hands (maybe), and a lot of easy-going fun.
IF WE HAVE TO BE FORMAL, THEN . . .
Meet early on a weekend (2-3pm)at a subdued locale for a drinks(or coffee if she doesn't drink), bites, and stimulating conversation. Gives us a chance to "test the waters" and see if there is any attraction. Have it preplanned to go to a privately owned restaurant(I prefer not to go to chains), where we can each try something that we have never had before. By the time it is time to go to dinner, we'll know if the date is going to continue. I would drive her to the restaurant (unless it is walking distance) and we would have an excellent meal, sparing no expense. No arguments, I am taking her out and I am buying. After dinner, we could walk around the part of town we are in or just finish with 'after dinners', dessert, or coffee. I would then escort her to her vehicle and bid her a good night (and if all is right - a long, passionate kiss followed by solid plans for the next time we could get together) . . . SIGH!