If you and I were to meet in person, you would notice that I am not the stereotypical, petite Asian flower; that I make consistent eye contact; that I will often seem very civil but distant and aloof upon first meeting. But there is the line that "pleasures lie thickest where no pleasures seem," after all, and it's exactly to that pleasure and wonder that I hope to one day deliver myself.
I tend to like doing things that I'm good at, and, as a result, I tend to take the things I do kind of seriously because I like to try getting better. The (very) sad bit about this approach is that I'm rarely pushed outside of my comfort zones. I'm perfectly comfortable getting into a shark cage or jumping out of a plane at 14k feet, but...I don't dance because I'm terrible at it, and sometimes I wish I would, despite that (arrows sometimes help--bonus points if you get the reference :D). I have a tough time showing emotion, but sometimes I wish I would, despite that. More often than not, I am calm, collected, secure, generally together, and in possession of self-control and self-restraint...but sometimes I wish I weren't, and, rather, more able to just let go. It's a challenge, I admit, but I don't tend to back away from challenges. Expect to be challenged in return.
Boozin'; cookin'; moving myself around (working out, snowboarding, muay thai); riding my motorcycle (Ducati Monster); photography; precise thinking, problem solving, board games like Pente or Go; video games like SSX and Rock Band are amongst my top selections (but please don't tell me to learn a real instrument--I grew up playing piano, violin and viola...I'm asian, after all =^,^=), although there will forever be room in my heart for Marvel vs. Capcom, Zelda, DDR; reading; traveling.
Things I used to do that I wish I did more of now:
Fencing (Epee); mountain biking; clay/target shooting; painting, drawing; gaming (homebrews and V:tM).
Things I hope to do in the future:
Scuba diving; sailing; flying; motorcycle track school.
It's been a long road already thus far, but I'm not nearly close to being done...ultimately, I want to get to the point where if I were to drop dead tomorrow, I'd do so with no regrets. Recently I've noticed that a lot of my pursuits have been completely for personal benefit or enjoyment, so I'm seriously thinking about devoting my time to a charitable cause.
It really depends...my playlists are organized by mood, ambiance or activity ("Driving - Sunny Day," "Driving - Rainy Night," "Downbeat and Moody," etc.). I have particular fondness for classical crossover, electro-swing, remixed opera and remixed tango.
- If I decide you're worth my time, I can promise being worth yours.
- I would be interested in hearing from you if you are a woman who: is passionate about literature, technology, media, and the cultures these things spawn; has worthwhile things to say or experiences to share regarding BDSM; sees the beauty and eroticism of tattoos, piercings, rituals; is into Victoriana or its more creative derivatives like steampunk; appreciates art, design, typography, architecture; presents thoughts that elicit sudden gasps of understanding; is British (super bonus :D).
- Stockings and garters are so hot that--no matter how often I see them--I always find my eyes lingering, my breath catching in my throat, and my lips pulling into a small and wicked smile of approval.