At this point in my life, I’m comfortable not to let other people's expectations or relationships define me. Been a wife, a mother, an ex-wife, (maybe a B****) a girlfriend, a friend with benefits, and even just the buddy. Ideally, we bring out the best in both of us. I enjoy the company of a man who is inspired in his life and continues to have the energy to challenge himself. Please don’t take yourself so seriously that you won’t take the risk of trying something you might not succeed at the first time. Learning something new or exploring different points of view. Intelligent conversation is very sexy. Although, they say men are turned on visually and women mentally, last time I checked it took more than just thinking about my partner to do the trick. Native to the Bay Area, I continue to be amazed by all the area has to offer. Let’s discover new places to eat, funky bands to listen to, and hidden trails to explore that offer a spot to sit, share a glass of wine and ponder the paradox of life. I believe everyone comes into my life for a reason. We just may not know the reason at the time! Are you up to the challenge?