*Please be kind enough to not waste my time or yours with an email to me that only says "Hi", "Hello" yada yada obviously I'm single and bored just like you. Pretty sure I give you enough to come up with something to trigger a response.
Well, thanks for dropping by! I clarify..I'm looking to date and see if something develops! SO...I've gotten the ?? as to why I am "browsing" around TN, MO and other parts of NC. Well, I just left the Outer Banks of NC (and I'm from MO), and am still debating between Asheville, Nashville, and Knoxville. I'm keeping my heart and mind open to great opportunities. Love can find you anywhere right :) My time on the OBX was absolutely what I needed when I needed it, and will always be a second home. Unfortunately there are things I want for my future that I can't obtain there. And I'm not willing to settle :) I'm SO excited to start writing this next chapter in my life!
Who I am: someone who knows her weaknesses as well as her strengths, a realist more than a romantic. Someone who has shied away from dating, more than I have pursued it. Sweet but also very sarcastic....I can take it, but you better believe I can dish it!! A natural caregiver. I think I'm funny, and I'm not afraid to laugh at myself...have learned over the years doesn't do any good to take yourself too seriously. That being said, I do have high standards, but not unrealistic. Strong convictions, but can definitely compromise. Probably 60/40 tomgirl/girly-girl. I'm direct, but not rude. Not the girl that NEEDS someone, but wants someone to experience the fun things with!. Usually I'm "just one of the guys" and something falls into play. Never have gone from one relationship to the next. Settling down and getting married has never been a priority of mine.But doesn't mean I don't want that for my future.. Not opposed to dating someone with kids, unless you have baby momma drama :) Looking for someone who is genuine and down to earth. Someone who understands the value of the little things in life. Not hung up on material things or "keeping up with the Jones'". Interested in knowing who you ARE, not about what you HAVE. Please don't confuse this with it being ok if you are unemployed and clueless about what you want to do with your life. I completely understand if you are however re-evaluating and getting on track. I've done the same...and I think it's not the job that's important but the passion you have for what you are doing.
Speaking of that passion...I am going through a career change. Used to work in accounting which I discovered that I have WAY too much personality to sit behind a desk and waste it. I also love to help people and that is where my heart is...so I'm working on getting my RN. I work a few other jobs to get the bills paid, but I also do home health which is greatly needed in this area-and it makes me feel great to give back to a place that has given so much to me. I visited the OBX 3 1/2 yrs ago for 2 days and moved the 1100 mi 3 months later without knowing anyone. Best thing I ever did for myself.
You should get a pretty good idea. Definitely a low maintenance chic...a tom girl who can appreciate what City life has to offer but will never conform! Also about 70% smart ass, 30% sweet haha. ! Witty repartee is a definite turn on! Any other ?? Ask, I'm pretty open...but don't ask a ? unless you really want an honest answer! If you are higher maintenance than me...save your time...keep on looking.
Loves:getting lost in the woods, the mountains, the beach, flip flops, jeans, the smell of rain, baseball, working in the garage with my dad, hiking/camping/fishing, dancing, baseball caps, the wind in my hair, lazy Sundays, mashed potatoes, the theater (no not the ones for movies, although I do like those too), museums..., concerts, live music, country music and 90's alternative are faves. 4 wheeling, trout fishing, Monday night football. Guys guy, uniforms ha, muscle cars, scruff. Calloused hands.
****Please be kind enough to not waste my time or yours with an email to me that only says "Hi", "Hello" yada yada obviously I'm single and bored just like you. Pretty sure I give you enough to come up with something to trigger a response***
*My thoughts on the guys who take half naked pics of themselves and wanna say "just looking"....shouldn't you just say..."just advertising" ?? Just my take on that haha...these would be the bathroom pics or the "seductive" ones from your phone...the beach pics I rather enjoy. Yeah...I'm picky like that.
If you made it through this book...Kudos to you!! Earned some points haha!!
Love first dates where either neither of us has done the activity before, OR you can teach me something. You can tell a lot by the way a person teaches or leads. Also love amusement parks for a first date! I do realize we live on a beach but please don't pick something where we are half naked for a first date :/. Call me a lil old fashioned that way...some things are a lil worth waiting for!
Honestly, I'm not hard to please...just please have manners!