Oh boy feels like I am back in school...hmm essay, ok I am recently divorced I guess it went as good as it could we are still friends and share custody of our olde english bulldogge...lol I have no kids and really enjoy going for long rides on my motorcycle, traveling and just sitting by a fire, I am not a pyro but fires and the sound of running water really mellows me out...lol I was never a huge camper but I think that I would mind trying again nowadays because I really have learned to enjoy nature in a whole different way since I have gone for some many rides on the bike to so many different beautiful places. I am a big guy with a shaved head and multiple tatoos but I really am a gentle giant I hardly ever loose my temper and never in front of woman and children. I have a good shape from what people tell me definately to big but I have broad shoulders and it for the most part comes to a v in the back...lol Like to lose 50 more lbs, I have already lost 40 and I am determined to keep going even though food is such a tough giveup but I have realized after joining a gym that you can eat what you want in moderation as long as you exercise which right now is a big part of my life. I owned/leased a tractor trailer for years over the road which is my trade I would go out for ten weeks at a time and come home for ten days at a time which I no longer do because I decided to get married four years ago and she didnt want that kind of life, so now I drive locally, I dont regret quiting over the road for my ex because health wise it was really dragging me down nothing but truck stop food and mcdonalds etc, but I will not complain I have been to and or through every continental state in the united states. Most people would say I am a joker I would say I love to go out and have a good time, I dont drink much but when I do I like to go a lil overboard I guess and the reason I say that is because I always end up signing kareoke and I have the worst voice possible...lol My friends love to see me get like that so when I wake up the next day I get to watch how crazy I was on facebook cause yes ofcourse they do it everytime cause they think its a riot. Anyways right now I just really want to meet some new friends most of my friends are married and have kids or just people I dont want to associate with anymore, I find myself lonely from time to time and would love to have someone to go on rides with me or go watch a movie or whatever, I dont want to jump into anything I have learned alot from my ex how to and how not to treat a lady but must of all not to jump into anything. If you want to spend some time with me I would love it. Whether its going to a movie, getting a cup of coffee or jumping on the bike and going for a ride, whatevers clever!
First dates are usually akward from what I hear, yet I dont ever remembering them being a problem with me, I think its because I dont expect anything or want anything from them I just want her and myself to be comfortable. If we have a good time great maybe we can do it again, if not no big deal no reason we cant finish the meal and or movie...etc and talk about the redsox or the weather. Main thing is everyone on this site is looking for someone I have never been on a site like this before but I understand alot of people on here may have exhausted all of there options and the last thing they or anyone would ever need is a lower self esteem from someone they met for the first time on a dating site. Above all be nice, courteous and just try to get into a good conversation that isnt like a quiz or quesntionaire just open up a lil and see who that person is. Thats my theory but I find when I try to be real with anyone like that I can get through any date with atleast not hurting my or anyone else's feelings.