I figured I would give this a shot again. I am a single mom and that comes first and fore most. If you can’t understand or respect that then keep looking. I know what I want and will not settle for anything less than what I am looking for.
My hobbies? I am really into just about anything. I don't have much free time to go out and enjoy myself but when I do I like to go to comedy clubs, movies, bowling, concerts, and just anything as long as I am with fun people and we are enjoying ourselves it don't matter to much what I do.
Goals: I am looking to continue my education here soon. Only bad thing is I will have to start all over. I would like to eventually become a lead preschool teacher and maybe even open my own childcare center.
Talk about myself and what makes me unique? Isn’t this hard for everyone?! Ok here goes! I am 5'6" with blonde hair and green eyes. I wear both glasses and contacts. Mostly contacts. Yes I am a little over weight and if you don't like bigger girls than please don't waste my time. I am trying to work on that though. I am a very quiet and shy person at first but once I am comfortable then I really open up. I am a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl but can also dress up. I am very low maintenance. I am a romantic and love to be treated like they do in the movies. But I honestly don't see that happening! What makes me unique? Not sure since everyone is unique. I love to laugh and giggle. I am almost always smiling even if I am not in a good mood. I tend to keep my emotions to myself.
Music: Right now I mainly listen to pop or top 40s.But I really like just about anything. From Beyoncé to Eminem to Train to Korn. I have been to a few concerts including Disturbed, Korn, Rob Zombie and Godsmack. I actually went to an after party with Godsmack. Lead singer Sully is actually kind of short! LOL!
What I am looking for in a guy: I am looking for someone who also knows what they want. I am not too picky but there are 2 things that are a requirement. You must have a job and a vehicle. I am not looking for someone I have to support financially or someone I have to tote around because you have no car. I have my own job, car and house. Yes I own my own house. I do not need someone to support me. I do just fine on my own financially. I need someone who will understand that I am a mom and I can’t change that and wouldn’t even if I could. I have my child all the time. So you will need to be respectful of that. Do I get a chance to go out, yes once in a while but I do need time to set up a babysitter so be patient and understanding.
I prefer guys who are taller than myself. If you message me please be a little original. Everyone usually just comes out and says I am a nice guy and so on and so forth. The more original you are the more you catch my eye and others eyes.
I am looking for a relationship but I want to take things slow. I have been hurt in the past (but who hasn’t right?) so I don’t just jump into things. But I would like to find someone who I can spend my down time with. Who likes to cuddle on the couch watching movies. Who will hold my hand walking through the store. Who sends flowers out of the blue to me at work for no reason. Someone who will text first in the morning and last at night just so I know they are thinking of me. Is this all too much to ask? Is there even a guy out there willing to do this stuff?
If I sound like someone you would like to get to know send me a message. Ask me anything, I am an open book!
The first date could be just about anything. I am really easy going but am also a romantic. So of course a nice walk on the beach (if there was one close by!) Would be great! Or even just a quiet place or bar with a few drinks. Wherever and whatever we do is fine as long as we can talk and get to know each other better.