Ok, I thought I would give online dating another shot. We all have to start somewhere, right?
I get asked quite a bit about why I don’t have pictures posted. Believe me, it’s not because I’m trying to hide anything. I’m just cautious when it comes to certain things, this being one of them. Please don’t judge me for not posting pictures. I look like my pictures. Everyone tells me that I look 10-12yrs younger than what my profile states. So, if you choose to contact me, PLEASE make sure that your photos are current and that you look like your pictures as well.
I also get asked quite often, why I don’t have any children – which apparently, is not common for someone my age. The reason(s): at the time, I wasn’t with the right person – I wasn’t going to have a child just for the sake of having one, I wanted to make sure the relationship was stable – which of course, it wasn’t. Later, I let a career get in the way and before I knew it, time just passed me by. Believe me, there are times that I really wish I had children, but then I’m glad I didn’t because it’s difficult raising a child by yourself or raising a child in dual households. This doesn’t mean that I don’t like children, it just means that I didn’t have the opportunity to have any.
About me…I’m very athletic, I like to be active, but then also a little downtime is nice cuddling with someone on the couch watching a movie. I think staying active is the key to staying young and healthy. I don’t smoke or do drugs. I don't really drink anymore as I’ve cleaned up my diet quite a bit and have started eating a lot healthier – meaning no junk food nor fast food. Depending on my schedule, I’m at the gym 4-6 days a week, even if it’s just to do a quick cardio workout. I do anything from kickboxing, to Insanity, to PIT, to bootcamp!! I’m not a fitness model, nor do I want to be. I just believe in staying fit, especially as we ‘mature’ ( not old!!!! ) LOL
I love to play golf, although I may not be the best golfer, I think I do pretty well for ‘a girl’ ?. I like to stay optimistic and surround myself with positive people. I don’t like angry or negative people around me as it’s like a bad apple. I’m a very honest, loving, passionate person that believes in PDA!! I enjoy giving and receiving attention from my partner. I’ve been told that I have a great sense of humor and enjoy making others laugh! Even on a cloudy day, I always see the sunshine!
What I’m looking for: first and foremost, I'm looking for someone that is going to be my BEST friend!! Someone that knows how to take care of a lady, to be honest. Protective without possessive (If I was meant to be controlled, I would come with a remote!!). Respectful, knows how to open doors – car doors included! Someone that knows how to communicate without yelling – being able to discuss issues is important. I don’t like to argue, so if you can’t talk calmly about something then I wish you luck. I would like to be with someone that can be open about how they feel – this falls back to communication! Communication is a big factor in any relationship. Someone that is passionate, funny, energetic, active. Since I am fairly tall (5’8), I’m looking for someone that is at least 5’11”+ as I like to wear heels!!! Gentlemen, I know what I'm looking for and I refuse to settle, as I don't think anyone should. I'm a strong, independent person. I'm not a jealous person and will not be involved with someone that is. I do not like drama. My business can keep me busy, and if you're someone that needs to have someone around 24/7, then I'm sorry, at this time, that wouldn't be me. Just being honest….
Also, please have more than 3 sentences written in your 'about me' section, it shows that you're actually putting in an effort….
Thank you for reading my profile.
Stay positive and good luck in your search!