Updated November 30, 2012
I read a profile today that very much described what I feel about the place I am at in my life. 35 is just around the corner and I feel so young but I am seeing ....or just finally admitting that if I do want to experience certain things in life the opportunity for me to take advantage of those things in closing in quickly.
I have been on this site before and not quite sure why I am giving it another go but you never know till you try. Weeks go by that I do nothing but just read profiles for entertainment then I get that wild hair (or loneliness set in, whatever the cause) I will decide to respond to someone that has messaged me something worth responding to (see below).
A little snippet about me:
I'm blunt, to the point and keep things simple. If you have a question just ask and I will tell you.
I am wanting to sincerely meet someone. I don't want a messaging or texting buddy so please only message me if you are sincere about wanting to eventually meet in person. You will never know if you have physical attraction or chemistry with someone unless you are willing to meet them.
I am looking for a man who wants to treat a woman like a lady, get to know her and DATE HER. I am not about a man taking me out just to spend money on me. I want someone to spend time with be it at home, a walk in the park or taking in the sites of the city.
Despite my "few extra pounds" I stay active so I need someone that can keep up with me, no couch potato's.
What I like in a man:
Dreads or a shaved head makes me no difference just please for the love of all that is good .... keep yourself clean and manicured. If you are going to wear facial hair trim that stuff. tehehehehe
I do date outside of my race so no hesitation needed when contacting me :-D
Part of my bluntness and sincerity is what follows:
In trying to not be rude or to be disrespectful I will warn you.....If you are truly interested and want even the slightest chance of me even responding to you the message best not be one that is a cut and paste message nor your profile cut and pasted (I always read a profile before I will ever respond to you). I will not respond to you by being called a pet name. I am not asking for a novel or to put a lot of effort into it because I know that anyone that has been on here long enough gets tired of putting in the effort and getting nothing in return. Just be respectful and just SIMPLY ask if I would like to get to know you.
One of my biggest turn offs in being called sweetie, babe, baby, dear ... any number of those things. To me those are terms of endearment which I will kindly, warmly and genuinely look forward to accepting from that special someone when that time comes for them to give me that special pet name. Just because we have messaged and text a few times does not give you the green light for those endearing words to be used when communicating with me.