My mother has multiple myeloma (bone cancer)3rd year with it(2013)-- my father has been has been her primary emotional support,her best friend,her caregiver,her husband for 40yrs,her love..and us as a family along w my bros(2)n sister, my 2 kids!my sisters 2 kids n my bro 1daughter we are the safety net...well
The day after mothers day2013 --
Monday May 14 @11:22pm my father had a stroke in his sleep and left us briefly...but my mom always worried about his snoring..so when he gave a big gasp my mom pinched his nose like she always did after pops bursted out an unorthodox snore...he usually just roll over n that was that..this time he didnt respond..and after seein him not right.. Her fragile bones managed thru adrenaline to run into the main house to my room.. As i dash towards their back house..i quickly notice pops is in trouble..i dial 911 as i sit him up raise his arms so air can circulate..i give dispatch the address and although the medics got here fast it took pops a total of 30min to comeback from the tunnel.------->ok now were in the I.C.U. and were not looking too good.we have brain damage on both sides and were not doing anything.. N when i say we i mean pops..we as the children been on mom watch. N pops patrol 24/7..
But pops is in bad shape although he started to get better from the get go..well he didnt stop getting better.. 15 days now as of today may29,2013 and each day is something new wether he open his eyes started to move his arms feet...slowly too slow as far as the doctors are concerned
...but we know pops better than anybody and hes fighting his way back...its gonna be a long fight..or who knows...
One thing i know for sure is that I have decided that im goin to take care of both of my oldies but goodies
From now til God decides its time..for them to go...
So i must deny the search for a relationship n if youd like to hang out sometime be a companion have a good time with ..me..cause i am still me...and i still have needs.. Physically n mentally then let me know...ill be letting ya know..aswell..if u catch my eye.. God is good.. ..u can leatn more about me thru me.. please dont feel like u have to change the way you talk or act w me.. were a strong family.. thats why god gave us this task..prayers are wellcomed n appreciated... be yourselves n live a little..be bold..take that risk..appreciate life n live it!!