I am a fun ,free spirit, passionate about life, and all it has to offer! Open-minded,spontaneous, creative, fun, faithful,loving,compassionate, optimistic,giving,humanitarian,goofy, silly,sassy.(My mother used to call me Sassyfrass!).These are just a few words that describe me. Originally from Neworleans,I am French-Italian,with over 500 cousins!I love people from all walks of life...and u might find me stopping to help people..whether it be food, water..or just giving them recognition.The homeless make alot of people uncomfortable..cities try to herd them into an abandoned area..to hide them from those more fortunate..they are used to being ignored. ..one person, when I asked if they were okay, or needed anything, they said.."could u sit down for a minute and just talk with me? I have noone to talk to.".If nothing else, a simple hi, recognition..makes their day..Recently my Mom..my best friend, died unexpectedly,it taught me to never take life, people, for granted. I went from having it all; to losing it all , thru a difficult divorce.and a subsequent abusive relationship, where a man who preyed on me conned me out of all i had , landing me penniless ,and temp homeless.im not damaged, bitter, or looking for someone to save me.However, I feel I should make it clear, I am starting over..amoung all the adversities ,I became blind in one eye, a botched surgery from a detached retina.I am on temp.disability. unable to cut hair anymore. I can still function, drive etc. I am blessed to live with my cousin who shares her car until i get back on my feet. America is the only country that people have to store their stuff .If we gave away what we didn't use, we would all be without needs..I'm looking for a man who can lead, not control. .one who appreciates who I am, doesn't expect that to change, and isn't just looking for a friend with benefits..or a one night stand..there are many fish who will..so pass me by.Life is short.I am grateful for life, value it, and want to share it and have fun with just one unique man..Its a plus if u like to dance..because i am a dancing fool!! I love staying home, relaxing, crave adventures and new places!These are events that happened to me..they don't define me.I see the glass half full, regardless. .in neworleans, we have a saying"laissez le bon temps rouler! Let the GOOD times roll! Show me the world!!