I'm a Michigan-grown, eastcoast-influenced California girl looking for someone to share good times with! Been in SD for almost 10 years and am ready to break out of the same old routine. I'm at a point in my life where the 21-year-old days of hanging out in bars every night just doesn't cut it, and I want to explore new ways of having fun and have someone to share those experiences with!
Things that keep me ticking are: family, relationships with friends, golf, sushi, Steeler football, reality TV, church, my bed, puppies, and a fast-paced lifestyle. You'll find me constantly going and packing things into my schedule, but when it's time to relax, it's REALLY time to relax... :) Have spent time in Indonesia, Spain, and France, and would love to do some more traveling with the right person! I dig a good dive bar... I'm definitely not the type you'd find going downtown on the weekends to be seen at clubs or sitting in a cabana at Intervention... give me the beach and a pair of Rainbows and I'm stoked...
As for my match, I'm learning more each day what "he" will encompass, but I really just want to find someone who knows what he's looking for and is willing to learn and grow together. Nobody's perfect (especially me), but I fully respect that person who will take a step back and see both sides of every story. A relationship is nothing if there is no trust; honesty is a MUST. Past relationships have taught me, amongst other things, communication, patience, treating your partner better than your best friend (not as an emotional punching bag), respect, and acceptance. I admire anyone who has the ability to look outside themselves and apply these things to a relationship, and I try to incorporate them daily in my interactions. I go for guys who are respectful to everyone they pass, love God, have old-fashioned values, and can hold their own in a social setting. Confidence vs.****ness is a tough thing to master.
Thanks for reading, and hope you find what you're looking for!
(Note: A closer relationship with God is something I've been pursuing more over the past few years. I'm not preachy and am no angel, but that's why I'm pursuing Him. I'd love to meet someone headed in the same direction!) :)
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